Yes, another rates thread

This is a friend and a stand up guy. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

Yeah, I gathered you were in the OBST clique.

The reason it matters is that he called out the people he disagrees with in a private forum to defend their positon in a public setting - that is not cool.

That means that the guys who are not part of either faction see this and are going to be less willing to share honest details.

So, the others may be bottom feeders, but, OBST is stirring drama and showing that he cant be trusted with confidential information. IMO, he's no better than your "bottom feeders".

Moderators: OBSG should be banned . Scrutinize his comments in all forums. He causes unnecessary drama to get freebies. Likely one who tattle tales to Tara .

(Excuse the crudeness) You have a guy that gave a girl a bad review after paying her $40. That is Forty Dollars, not One hundred a forty. I've brought a bottle of wine to a session that cost twice that much. If he actually paid $250, it would be a bad review if the pussy didn't sing Yankee Doodle Dandy.

...The owner sets the price, the buyer has the right of refusal. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

...A provider picks a price point that meets her economic needs for the time allotted.
You go pick a provider based on your own personal needs (desires) and in doing so, you have to determine which provider can satisfy your needs and at what price point you feel is appropriate given your financial situation/capability.
... Originally Posted by SD2011

It is all supply and demand. ... Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer

why do some people keep bringing this up?? maybe so newer members can read and maybe learn :^)

it really is this simple...
each provider charges what she wants, does who she wants, and does as little as she can.
each client pays what he wants, sees who he wants, and gets as much as he can.

yes, sometimes a client can get a reduction in a fee just by asking. or a provider can get a premium for her services.
and yes, sometimes a client can get a great multi-hour deal. or a provider can get a premium for multi-hour deals.

but nothing we say and very little of what we do will affect a provider's fees.


now, treating providers and treating clients w/ respect is a whole other question/topic.
but in general, treat everyone w/ respect and in a manner you would want to be treated yourself.

Yeah, I gathered you were in the OBST clique.

The reason it matters is that he called out the people he disagrees with in a private forum to defend their positon in a public setting - that is not cool.

That means that the guys who are not part of either faction see this and are going to be less willing to share honest details.

So, the others may be bottom feeders, but, OBST is stirring drama and showing that he cant be trusted with confidential information. IMO, he's no better than your "bottom feeders". Originally Posted by Bad_Mojo

It isn't a clique. I have a lot of friends in the hobby.

Again, he didn't say where this was, who was involved, what was said, whether it was public or private. I don't see any confidential information. This subject came up back on ASPD. It is as old as the net. Nothing new here.
Hang around, it won't be the last time you see this.

(Excuse the crudeness) You have a guy that gave a girl a bad review after paying her $40. That is Forty Dollars, not One hundred a forty. I've brought a bottle of wine to a session that cost twice that much. If he actually paid $250, it would be a bad review if the pussy didn't sing Yankee Doodle Dandy. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

OK.

But what does that have to do with OBST calling out the people he disagrees with in a private forum to defend their positon in a public setting?

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It isn't a clique. I have a lot of friends in the hobby.

Again, he didn't say where this was, who was involved, what was said, whether it was public or private. I don't see any confidential information. This subject came up back on ASPD. It is as old as the net. Nothing new here.
Hang around, it won't be the last time you see this. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

Actually he did say private forums.... plural. I'm wondering if he's talking about multiple MLs or if he has access to the Powder Rooms too.

They are very vocal in private forums and now are doing it in public ones. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

OBSG brought this to this forum - pot meet kettle. ijs

OK.

But what does that have to do with OBST calling out the people he disagrees with in a private forum to defend their positon in a public setting?

. Originally Posted by Bad_Mojo

Come on Mojo. That is who you are siding with. You aren't afraid to spend money. Tell me who did he call out? Did you see any names or quotes. This same information has come up dozens of times. Read the first line in pmdelites comment.

Come on Mojo. That is who you are siding with. You aren't afraid to spend money. Tell me who did he call out? Did you see any names or quotes. This same information has come up dozens of times. Read the first line in pmdelites comment. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

You misunderstand, amigo. I'm not siding with anyone. Like I said above, the girls can charge whatever they want.

My point is this:

Oh, and I challenged these guys to post here in Co-Ed about their actions and how they feel about rates and services. Lets see if they have the balls to defend themselves where the ladies can respond back. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

That right there is a breach of confidentiality. OBSG cannot be trusted with private information.

Now, I get where you are coming from. Hes a friend and you have his back. I get that. Hell, one of my favorite people around here is Muffinman101 and I'll be glad when he gets back. But that doesnt means I condone his transgression. He made a mistake, but hes still a friend.

OBST should never have started this thread. Cuz, once again, people know that as long as he has access to ML, they cant really be honest there.

You misunderstand, amigo. I'm not siding with anyone. Like I said above, the girls can charge whatever they want.

My point is this:



That right there is a breach of confidentiality. OBSG cannot be trusted with private information.

Now, I get where you are coming from. Hes a friend and you have his back. I get that. Hell, one of my favorite people around here is Muffinman101 and I'll be glad when he gets back. But that doesnt means I condone his transgression. He made a mistake, but hes still a friend.

OBST should never have started this thread. Cuz, once again, people know that as long as he has access to ML, they cant really be honest there. Originally Posted by Bad_Mojo

He is a friend and yes, I have his back. If this topic hadn't come up a dozen times over the years, I might agree with you. If he had quoted someone or named a name, I would definitely agree with you. All he talks about is the subject of a conversation. Again, this has come up many times. I saw it several times on the old ASPD site.

He also mentioned that women had been confronted in a public area. I don't know what he was referring to.

The issues that drove the need for this discussion are open to be read in the welcome wagon by anyone who cares to look. It is an issue I feel affects the community at large. The ability of guys to attack gals in such a public forum without apparent repercussions is worthy of discussion.

it is wrong to do that. Especially in the ww. Guys have the ability to keep such comments private or just not make them at all. People should make note of the guys attacking me for bringing this issue to the forefront. Perhaps there is a more fundamental reason they choose to attack me than discuss the issue.

I have quoted no one. I have listed no names. None of this subject is new to coed. I have said nothing that has not been mentioned here before. If it is not worth talkimg about, then make no comments and it will fade away quickly. Clearly it has struck a sore nerve with some. Makes you wonder what they have to hide.

Well, kind of.I have noticed over the last few months a small but very vocal group of guys have been publicly berating and attacking gals in the WW about their rates and services. Rates are too high, they have GPS, services are too limited, etc.
To me, if a provides rates are higher than I want to pay or she does not offer a service I want, I wish her the best of luck and move on to one that meets my needs. Plenty of gals out there. Why waste time and effort on one who does not? If any provider can get guys to pay her what she wants, then more power to her. Clearly someone thinks she’s worth it. If not, she will lower her rates or leave the market. Simple, right?

Yet this group of guys seems to think they are the rate and services police.If you don’t meet their “standards”, then you have GPS, are stupid bitches, no one should see her, etc. They are very vocal in private forums and now are doing it in public ones. They are very quick to attack anyone, guys included, that do not agree with them.

And the best part? Some of these guys think we should boycott gals over a specific rate. Typically $200 or so. ROFLMAO Yea, right I tell them go for it. Hell, close their accounts in protest.

I have been able to chat with a few new gals. They tell me they get swamped with requests for discounts, expanded services, reviews for free sessions, etc .They tell me the reputation of ECCIE is the wal-mart of escort boards and very unfriendly. Several girls have told me they would not come here but business is tough and they are trying to expand their markets. They hate BP even more but can go there and make more money.

To me, the more gals we have here the better it is for everyone. Even if they are gals I would not see, they add to the community and help make it better for everyone.

What do you think? Is it right for these guys to attack the new providers? Are they helping keep rates down? As a provider, how do you respond to guys like this? Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

You go old one! you are right as rain but your not going to change any minds!

Moderators: OBSG should be banned . Scrutinize his comments in all forums. He causes unnecessary drama to get freebies. Likely one who tattle tales to Tara . Originally Posted by doug_dfw

Awwww thats Mrs Tara to you Dougy

Your right, I cannot change the minds of those who act like this. But, making others aware of their behavior may encourage others to also bring them to task and make it clear their activates are noted and not condoned. By not objecting to them at all, their behavior becomes accepted and the norm. If the community at large chastises them then perhaps some will decide its not the thing to do. The victims will see the community at large is not represented by these few assholes. Perhaps more will stay around longer to become the next generation of outstanding providers.

The Only Thing Necessary for the Triumph of Evil is that Good Men Do Nothing. Edmund Burke

Here is an example thread. Does not matter if you think the gal is crazy to ask so much. What is important is to see how some of these gals get treated when they first arrive. In the past, guys would keep their remarks in private. Now, some seem to feel they do not need to show any respect. Which is the whole point of this thread. There are plenty of other examples to be found.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1137197

You go old one! you are right as rain but your not going to change any minds! Originally Posted by daddyo67

Awwww thats Mrs Tara to you Dougy Originally Posted by Tara Evans

You have an information pipeline? I got a PM from a guy, I haven't met, telling me that I needed to see Tara. Guess you are not alone.