And yes matador, I do stand by everything I say. Why? Because its truth. Can't argue the truth. The truth never changes.
Originally Posted by ChloeCox
And that really is all we ask of everyone, and the reason why
hit and run posting is a bad idea. If a member is going to vent their frustrations here, it is only appropriate that if anyone disagrees or takes exception to the post, they should have every opportunity to reply and add their thoughts. As far as what the truth is, well that will be up to every reader to form his/her own opinion. I can post without hesitation that there will be some readers who will agree with you as well as some readers who will disagree with you. That is just the nature of having a diverse community.
I'm still lost as to how I'm the bad guy here, lol. But I'm not concerned with it, just don't understand it. Heidilynnla, you're so very right. Hit the nail on the head girl! The people who take offense to the original thread are of question. Hobbyists are allowed the opportunity to rate providers negatively and i state a few things without names and people start wigging out. lol.
Originally Posted by ChloeCox
Bad guy? The only thread recently where there was a bad guy is this one, if you care to read
Get your poppcorn ready! Now there are many alerts posted about bad guys and girls, but most alerts don't have the necessary details to make them useful information to the readers.
Chloe this is where your frustration clouds your judgment to a degree. This is a review board, so of course guys will be allowed to rate providers. That is why it is a review board. What value would this forum have for guys if they couldn't find out ratings and information about providers? I can't speak for anyone else but me, and my answer is the site would be of no value to me. For you to bring that up because you are frustrated just shows that you are not seeing the reality of what this forum is. How did I submit your request to grant you Verified status? By relying on the reviews of well established guys, that is how I did it, and that is mostly how most ladies get verified. As long as this site exists, there is very little chance of that going away, so it is difficult to see how bringing that up helps you at all to make your point.
Oh, and guys get grilled plenty of times when they post negative reviews about girls. Every city usually has a cavalry of white knights who make sure the writer of the negative review is discredited. I am personally neutral to the white knights because there are a few bad apples who post BS to reviews and sometimes they need to get called out. The majority of instances though, the guy posting a negative comment just had a bad experience. So you are far from being the only person who encounters disagreement from other members because you post something negative.