Providers - What Size Do You Like??

I like mine hard.
DarthMaul's Avatar
Yes, I know this question always comes up but this time it's in a "pole"!?

DED, since I am the senior MOD...meaning I am older..I can assign points to the other MODS!
Naomi4u's Avatar
The smaller the better.
Eliot Spitzer's Avatar
www.penissizedebate.com will clear all this up.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
As long as you hit the spot ...yummm
As long as you hit the spot ...yummm Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
Like a laser guided missle!!!
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Like a laser guided missle!!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight
Hell Yesss!!
SlowHand49's Avatar
Make that a heat-seeking missile . . .
gimme_that's Avatar
This poll would have been more honest if it was not anonymous. Most ladies are gonna choose the first option because it accounts for most of the average men size.

I'm sure size doesn't matter in the hobby persay.

But if you seriously believe size doesn't matter for most woman outside you are sadly mistaken. Its probably more of a younger age demographic than the older ladies are concerned about..

I'm also aware that guys who are younger and more overly equipt tend to have trouble dating and forming relationships past flings at times as well. Usually they feel as if their limited sexually in what they can do with their partners and how often they get sex. I'm sure theirs exceptions to these but its not all its cracked up to be. Some can be ostracized because of their size.
  • Chloe
  • 01-31-2011, 01:42 AM
I can "handle" every size I have encountered, I am a very tall girl with a long body

I agree it is how you use it and would've gone with that choice if I was not a provider. As a provider I choose the smaller the better, the less focus I have on being able to take it and the more I have on how to work it the more pleasure is derived
While I find this subject interesting, it deals more with psychological issues than physical size.

Virtually all of the nerve endings that affect sexual performance in a lady are either in the clitoris or within the first 3" to 3.5" of the vagina. Beyond that point there are few nerve endings and they primarily sense only discomfort which in the extreme becomes pain. A normally functioning vagina accommodates to the girth of the penis. If you doubt this insert a single finger and the achieve orgasm using a vibrator. Repeat inserting two or more fingers. The vagina will form to the size with virtually identical pressure on the inserted fingers.

The only time penis size becomes a physical issue is when it exceeds the lady’s ability to accommodate it.

Penis size is much like breast size on the ladies. While it has no real physical affect the psychological factor can be enormous. Thus the opinions are generally valid since an individual preference is being expressed.

Happy Hobbing regardless of the size.
stugots's Avatar
The smaller the better. Originally Posted by Naomi4u
Note to self.....book a trip to Charlotte to meet my dream girl!!
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Note to self.....book a trip to Charlotte to meet my dream girl!! Originally Posted by stugots
Mature Companion's Avatar
Size doesn't matter, is a myth. Is does. For various reasons.
1: a womans vaginal canal is shaped different than the next woman. And over time a woman's body goes through changes. Sex can be painful when she least expects it. IF you have a large cock. Your bound to *hit* something that's not meant to be touched during sex and thus can cause a woman severe pain. Thus, not enabling you to penetrate 100%.

2: If your girth is too wide. BJ are not going to be enjoyable as a womans mouth is only so big. Anal sex is not going to pleasant for you nor for her.


3: More than a mouthful is a waste of cock! If a lady can't enjoy a penis in her mouth because of it's large size. If she can't deep throat it because of it's large size. If she can't take the cock all the way in her pussy or ass because the cock is too big. Then it's a waste of penis!

Porn, showing big dicks fucking with only the head in. Is a total waste of cock!

A cock should be enjoyed from head to base. In the mouth,ass and pussy. Any part of the cock NOT within those areas......is a waste of penis.



So yes, size does matter to many women. But it's not to say that pleasure still can't be given to the well endowed. However, it's up to a woman as to what type of pleasure she can give/enjoy with said large cock.

It's best to show up in your natural flaccid state. As that's a beautiful sight and it's a few moments when a woman is able to thoroughly enjoy the cock longer & better. Prior to him getting rock hard (because of her).


In the end. Enjoy the dick you were born with. A if a woman can take it all in every orifice. Then your a lucky man!



If I were the cynical sort I'd say that the ladies are saying they prefer the more 'average' size guys since we are most likely in the majority of clients and it's bad business to shit where you sleep to be a tad vulgar... Originally Posted by PaganGuy
Don't *assume* to know the dick size, of the majority of men in the hobby. As your assumption would be wrong. Unless you've given the majority of cocks in this here adult hobby BJ's and or f*cked them.
I agree whit you rain as long he know how to use it. Originally Posted by Selena51
If he does'nt know how to use it,that may be a good teaching moment. I think as a provider it's always nice turning out a newbie.My favorite number is 7. For oral enjoyment I prefer 6 or less.