TRUE GFE POLL. Provider/Hobbyist

I think a GFE is an complete package without the drama and gets better with each visit

I think a GFE is an complete package without the drama and gets better with each visit Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

The perfect description.

The perfect description. Originally Posted by Gryphon

Ditto

I think a GFE is where you're able to lose the ego, and still want the girl to enjoy your time together as much as you do. Just because.

GFE is definitely more about how you feel with the woman than the specific things she does...

GFE is definitely more about how you feel with the woman than the specific things she does... Originally Posted by MistressOlympia

For me, it's both.

Yes, the feeling has to be there, but if there aren't certain activities (DATY, LFK/DFK, multiple pops (allowed; I'm at that age where multiple pops may not happen), and a sincere connection between the two of us) the feeling won't be there, and the session won't be a GFE.

There's synergy between the feeling and the activities.

Cheers,

bcg

For me, it's both.

Yes, the feeling has to be there, but if there aren't certain activities (DATY, LFK/DFK, multiple pops (allowed; I'm at that age where multiple pops may not happen), and a sincere connection between the two of us) the feeling won't be there, and the session won't be a GFE.

There's synergy between the feeling and the activities.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I should hope most of those things are assumed when you're with someone who advertises as a GFE provider. I understand what you mean though, bcg.

gfe is well to me is gett n to know the person and kissing holding and having fun
well it means whole lot to me

I have to agree with those who say a Girl Friend Experience is just the feeling one might get when spending intimate time with a Girl Friend, or someone you can connect with, whether it's intellectual, emotional or some other common ground.....give me something I can relate to with you other than particular services.

Services without a connection is just a cold exchange of services for money. I could be anyone and you could be anyone. Blah. I'd have been out before I even began if that's what it was all about.

My ideal girlfriend fucks like a porn star. Guess I personally like a mix of both. GFE/PSE

Lets get real about this. If you think as a provider that only connection is the real gfe then I dissagree. Just because a provider lets you kiss her or hold her and she rubs your shoulders it's still not true gfe as alot of you are describing it as. That is reserved for people you really have affection for on a personal level. In the hobby sense GFE has to include the services the average couple does. That includes bbbj,sometimes cim sometimes greek, excluding bbfs as to the health reasons. Mult shots if capable. ( your girlfriend loves that if you are doing it right). Having been around a few years I'm not naive enough to believe that true feelings exsist ( other than sexual) between a provider and a hobbyist. Maybe on a rare occasion but definately not very often. Don't get me wrong we love when you do that because it is a fantasy but it's not reality. Only the sex is.

With an effective marketing strategy you can convince the vulnerable of anything.

With an effective marketing strategy you can convince the vulnerable of anything. Originally Posted by jokacz

My point exactly

Yeah, we kinda have discussed this a few times before, but...I'll bite.

I am totally on board for #4. For me, GFE came in when a person who sees a provider expected her to behave like his girlfriend would. Would a girlfriend say "stop" after one pop? No, of course not. Would she refuse kissing (LFK or DFK)? No, she's likely feel that her man was really into her if he wanted to kiss while getting it on. Would she say "No, baby, that's not on the menu" when he man went for DATY? Hell no she wouldn't. She would be thrilled that her man wanted to please her and she'd most certainly want to please him (i.e. returning the favor).

IMHO, short of the initial getting to know you chatter and the envelope, a GFE is one where you simply can't tell the difference between what would happen with your girlfriend and what would happen with a provider. If you checked out my site, read reviews, and then contacted me, you knew or had reason to know that what I provide is a GFE experience based on what others have consistently received. If a lady doesn't provide those things, then that's perfectly fine. To each her own, right?That goes for all. Some men prefer a PSE, which is totally not me. But there's a lid for every pot...etc....etc. However, its difficult to say one provides a GFE when particular items are left out that every provider would be doing with a BF, right? Originally Posted by Nina Rae

This is off topic, but your blog is incredible.

Ok guys tell ya what....

Since we are comparing what a real girlfriend would do then how about this...

I will call your phone constantly because you are 10 min. late getting to my hotel. I will then yell at you, tell you I am going to kill the other woman you are with when I catch her, and drain all the money out of our joint account. I will make you pay for a gym membership I never use because I would rather annoy you every night when we are both home. You will have to take me to at least 3 restaurants every week and buy me lobster, champagne, and Botox. Hair, nails, tanning, yoga, and you have to be nice to my parents.

Then if that's not enough, I am going to nag you to kiss me, daty, cry when you don't talk to me for an hour after your first pop, and put my bowling ball head on your chest while all you want to do is sleep. I will leave the TV on during sex so you can watch the game, then bitch at you because you are actually watching it!! I will ask you over and over again if you think I look fat, if I am still beautiful or if these pants make my azz look big, all the while I am probably only banging you once a week and thinking about your brother lol.

Now is it not much easier to go pay 2-1000 bucks, get off, and get the hell out of there without all the bs?? Even if your girl at home does do bbbj, she obviously aint doing it right or enough because you are still here lol.

Let each provider do what she feels is best for her. I don't offer what I do because I think it's what you guys consider gfe...I do it because I want to! If I wanted to please every guy out there I would be available 7 days a week and cut my rates by half lol.