is it wrong to be quiet during oral?

Yes. . . No. . . Maybe. . . Hell, it's been so long I don't remember.

How you not be just a bit vocal... I mean I do know do he porn movie BS calling the girl a dirty slut etc..but if the woman is skilled she KNOWS damn well she is pleasing me.. I am usually like Oh Fuck, that feels so fucking good and telling her how much I love her sucking my cock and balls etc.. She knows cause my eyes are rolling and I am breathing heavy..
That being said there are very few that can make me cum with just their mouths.. A few but I am all about the pussy, well the whole pussy mouth thing combined.. You get the picture.. Originally Posted by nosweat

nosweat i just wet my panties dammit.

my ideal session with a provider is the bbbjcimx2 and i love this. most of the time i just sit back, grab a titty or two, and relax. damn near all the providers i have seen say "you are so quiet". do guys normally moan, dirty talk, or just start "yes, yes, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yyyeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh"?
is it wrong to just sit back and enjoy the show without saying anything? Originally Posted by sroach23

Not at all. But a sign your enjoying it would be nice every now and then...lol

But the lack of sound or any type of emotion during oral makes me feel like Im churning butter. Makes me bore of it real quick.

I personally need feed back. No feed back? You get fresh churned butter.
Feedback? You get whipped, unsalted, easily spreadable margarine!

I am quit vocal during oral.

1. Please move your head, I cant see the game.
2. Do you mind if I smoke
3. Let me move my leg, I am getting a cramp
4. Turn around, its easier to play with your tits that way
5. If I hold your hair, you want have to keep stopping to pull it out of your mouth.
6. Sure you can use the sink to spit it out, but wash it down, I don't want to see that when I brush my teeth before my next session gets here, THANKS.

Gemma-cant wait to taste and feel just how wet i will actually get you..

For those of us who feel uncomfortable making noise, it's definitely worth breaking free from our comfort zone. Communication is very important in sex, by expressing what you like with subtle moans it tells your partner that you are enjoying that particular position.

Also it's important to note that making your partner feel comfortable will also improve the whole experience, so if you're being too silent and she willing to communicate that to you, take it as she is going out of her way to express her own discomfort so that she can please you better.

I have been married for 42 years. When I was young and broke we lived in either trailers or cheap apartments, with 4 kids......you better be quiet or you gonna have one of the "curtain climbers" standing next to the bed wondering why mommy is making Daddy cry. Just another joy of parenthood.

I have been married for 42 years. When I was young and broke we lived in either trailers or cheap apartments, with 4 kids......you better be quiet or you gonna have one of the "curtain climbers" standing next to the bed wondering why mommy is making Daddy cry. Just another joy of parenthood. Originally Posted by yaddayadda

LMFAO.....this is soooo true!

I had a 4-hand fbsm with a couple of BP bodyrub girls once. Their studio was in a rather "indiscreet" office bldg. They kept shushing me over and over throughout the session, even when I was just speaking normally. Finally, when things got a little more exciting, I began to moan softly just a little. Well, apparently this was just way too much noise. After several more shushes, one of them finally just stuffed a boob in my mouth. That worked very nicely until SHE started moaning too. She looked down at me and giggled, then she covered my mouth with some very hot dfk.

I wonder whatever happened to those two. I hope they found another place to work and didn't get in trouble.

thank u Berkleigh! U r fuckin HOT urself! im down for a 3some with u ANYTIME! Originally Posted by Gemma34

I'm your guy, ladies.....I'm your guy!!!

I'll give her feedback on how the bbbj is going if she gives me feedback on how my daty is progressing. Wait a minute! Let's just do 69 instead. Whoever cums last was doing the best job.

It bothers me...
I like moaners

The louder the better please
Originally Posted by berkleigh

What if the finish was vocal but not during the act itself?


I am not much of a moaner during oral, but I do make some noises here and there. But if you are one of the very few that can make me finish that way, I am pretty vocal. Sometimes, especially if they are cim, I have to push them away it is so intense.

If they are not cim but if there is persistent stimulation during my finish, I usually can't control the convulsing.

I am like the bizarro hulk, I get uncontrollably blissful when the purple thing gets happy.

What if the finish was vocal but not during the act itself?


I am not much of a moaner during oral, but I do make some noises here and there. But if you are one of the very few that can make me finish that way, I am pretty vocal. Sometimes, especially if they are cim, I have to push them away it is so intense.

If they are not cim but if there is persistent stimulation during my finish, I usually can't control the convulsing.

I am like the bizarro hulk, I get uncontrollably blissful when the purple thing gets happy. Originally Posted by internetdown

I've had a screamer...so you may be able to top that

I don't care too much for the talkers, just prefer moans, ya know "the illusion of passion" LOL

I don't care if you sing "The Hokey Pokey" ... just make some noise

my ideal session with a provider is the bbbjcimx2 and i love this. most of the time i just sit back, grab a titty or two, and relax. damn near all the providers i have seen say "you are so quiet". do guys normally moan, dirty talk, or just start "yes, yes, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yyyeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh"?
is it wrong to just sit back and enjoy the show without saying anything? Originally Posted by sroach23

I have had much the same experience. Talking or vocalizing is a distraction to e and keeps me from fully enjoying myself. I've also had girls note that I just lay there and don't let my hands roam around much. Again, since I'm paying, I'm concentrating on MY pleasure. Why would I be trying o stimulate her??

As for feed back, I give that, albeit quietly, with a quiet, "Umm," "Ahh," or "Nice!". But I still refer quiet, relaxing soft sounds even for feedback. The experience is supposed to be relaxing, no? Nothing loud is relaxing.

I've learned that it's always nice to mix up your game a little. I use to be really quiet and then had someone mention it so then I got into the dirty talk, sometimes moaning and groaning, and then sometimes go back to just being quiet. Based on the "giver" it can do different things... I've learned that some girls are great givers no matter what, some girls will become the best BJ of your life if you get into it and do the groaning and dirty talk, etc.. Of course some girls will get uncomfortable if you start too much dirty talk...

My point is I don't think there's a right or wrong answer and you will get different things from reacting differently..