I agree with Growler...totally a "loaded question"
Originally Posted by diamondsparkle
...diamond, not to be negative but rather to explain...becoming an ATF is a special thing for clients and providers, or atleast it used to be. Things may have changed in the last 2 or 3 years. I saw Susan over 20 times before the M.O. and many, many times on a personal level. I saw many of my ATFs around 10 times, Tia - Amber -Dagny - Carlie and several more. I saw many ladies at a personal level for other things, such as photos, building projects, website developement and many other non-hobby experiences. Just a good time in the sack is great and can lead to an ATF experience but there are so many elements in a provider-client "relationship" that becomes ATF.
Those who have shared know that it does not offend a real professional provider, but it is really a challenge, a goal, something to work toward with a client for the future? Does that make sense? It is not a put-down to not be on a list, but a mark to work toward....
Thus, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen? That is don't read the thread, if it's going to create a problem? Again not a slam but a change to share who is 5 star, but not grading the whole group as individuals? In other words, some day when an ATF thread starts it will include "
diamondsparkle" - that is your goal right, to be the best of the best?