Absolutely!
That haggling business is desrespectful ("I will only give you $100, take it or leave it").
How well do you think you will be treated by ANY woman when you tell her she isn't worth her rate? What will any woman's mindset be after you have negotiated $20 off the price? She will feel under-valued and unappreciated.
not a great basis for passion!!
You seem to approach the hobby with an adversarial frame of mind. Try thinking of the lady you're about to be intimate with as a real person, with feelings. (and possibly a future friend if you are NICE).
Originally Posted by HoneyRose
I agree with you HoneyRose. It is disrespectful to tell a woman she is not worth what she thinks she is worth. But on the flip side men have a $$ range they are comfortable with, and I for one will not budge outside that range. The thing I like about ECCIE is the rates are out in the open.
Before I would have to call, ask what the rates were and if they were beyond what I am willing to pay then I had the awkward situation of telling them thank you but no thank you. Most of the time they would start the haggling from there, but I already knew the service would be subpar and most of the time I would still pass.
Then I found ECCIE. I know from her showcase and the reviews what her range is. Now there is no haggling. I simply do not call you. I don't get to see some of the hotter providers, and you don't get my business, even if the difference is only 20 or 40 bucks. I refuse to pay over a certain amount. Call it cheap if you want. Just as time is important, my $ are important to me. They are all accounted for and have a name for what they must do in my life (yes I listen to Dave Ramsey, ALOT).
I also come here for the IOP and I pay higher than BP rates for that and better reliability. And that is YMMV greatly, even with a well reviewed provider you can get a bad session on the IOP. And a lot of the providers out here in West Texas still pull some BP crap. They are a higher mark, but not much higher.
Ok and just for clarification, yes there are exceptions. If Ebonyayes, Jeannie Pepper, or any of the other 80's pornstars I rubbed one out to back in the day were to ever pop up here, YES I would pay $$$$.
Just my 2cents.
Tbc