The trouble with outrageous extras in Strip Clubs

I've been going to the Lodge for probably 15 years..... Never got any extras..... I have known some of the dancers for years, and seen several of them outside the club.... Things certainly have changed...

I've been going to the Lodge for probably 15 years..... Never got any extras..... I have known some of the dancers for years, and seen several of them outside the club.... Things certainly have changed... Originally Posted by digitalbananna351

There is a good thread on this in the strip clubs forum. I would seriously suggest you read it for tips.

It would seem to me that happened mostly because you might have seemed like too nice of a guy who would simply part with his money without making clear expectations. Also it seems you might have needed to find a good waitress to work with. That's what I am getting but I am not too sure about it myself.

Then again, you know I would suggest clubs of a little lower scale than the Lodge. Those girls can't be too eager to give extras when they know some sucker will pay them $1000.00 a night likely for an air dance and a mild bit of brushing.

I have always been intrigued in the differences between an urban club and one that goes after the white customer.

Never been in an urban one, but have always thought (and this post semi-confirms) that the stage is where a bunch of money is exchange in urban clubs. There are the stories of guys "making it rain" and just throwing $ at the girl on stage. Never understood that at all...

Even if not looking for extras, definitely want a more personal experience for my money. Thought of throwing a wad of cash in the air is crazy to me. Originally Posted by TonyRomoWasHere

From my observations, guys will throw money on a girl if the DJ plays a song that gets the crowd really pumped. It doesn't matter WHAT the girl looks like.

I've witnessed a girl make 2,000 on stage Just because she danced to a particular song. A lot of guys go to urban strip clubs just to "flash" their money.

In the 90s there were only a handful of strip clubs each in Dallas, Arlington and Fort Worth. The clubs were also mostly “no touch” and I remember the days if you touched a dancer’s breast, you would have been thrown out….over the yearz…

….new clubz popped up everywhere and existing club chains expanded. Clubs had to compete with internet pornography and the growing escort scene. When guys could sit at home and get crystal clear porn streamed into their house via the internet, why pay for air dances in the club? Clubz had to abandon the “no touch” policy and compete with the other clubs for customers and dancers. The quality of dancers spread thin across all of the different clubz….



The first time I got extras in a strip club, I saw this guy wearing jeans and a sports coat that spent 200 on “just dances” with this dancer named Abbey. It was my turn next, and I unzipped and coaxed her into sticking her hands inside of my pants for a handjob. She agreed to do this for a 100 and I remember her sitting at the bar with sticky fingers while I went to the ATM to get the rest of her money…

…the look on her face while she sat there with sticky fingers was priceless. She took my money and said she was going to go wash her hands in the back. He he. Never saw her again. Now the guy in jeans that spent 200 for “just dances” was a complete fool.

The last good stripper slide with COP that I got a week or so ago was from a Baby Dolls dancer with an athletic high school type of body. She is a cute 19 yo and she isn’t fat or cheap. Just a very good girl. Yes, it was only the second time she danced for me, but she gave me a very naughty stripper slide and let me ejaculate all over her teen vagina. She just pulled up her bottoms and I gave her 200+ for being such a good girl…

…now the suckers in her club pay her 300 – 500 for “just dances”. She’ll often tell me – “This guy just gave me 500!” and I just laugh. She will not ask me for dances on the 1st or 15th when the suckers get paid that throw away their money on “just dances”. I saw a dancer this week ask a guy – “You love me, don’t you?”….and this guy was giving her 300 for just dances and following her around stage to stage like a puppy in love…

….There are fat, sloppy dancers that will do anything for money, but also pretty cute 18-20 yos that will play around in the club and outside of the club as well. If some guyz want to throw hundreds at a cute dancer for just dances – nothing wrong with that, but don’t get mad when that same cute dancer does stripper slides w/COP with another customer who isn’t interested in “just dances”.

Originally Posted by Logan

Logan, you sound like an exceptionally smart and experienced guy, well versed in the ways of charming women. I really liked your post. The quandary I have is how can we all get what we want? Perhaps the clubs are already differentiating between top class, middle class, and low class, and the trend will continue such that some clubs have pretty girls who like to party, and other clubs have the high class, very pretty and elegant girls who create the illusion or dream, and do it all on looks and charm, and those clubs enforce stricter rules that are disclosed to all participants up front.
I wish someone would put ten million into a super club, enforce a strict no touch policy, and hire only beautiful girls and outfit them with gowns and highly decorative outfits. It might attract some real knockouts, then the other clubs could differentiate themselves from that standard. Maybe the men would have to meet a strict dress code, also.
I know all men love the really beautiful, drop dead dream come true girls, and that everyone has different tastes. But my thinking is the really hot girls get bombarded with suitors and attention in real life, they know they are desired, and they will go to the highest bidder, so to speak. If enough money isn't spent in the clubs, in many ways, we all lose out on seeing gorgeous naked women in person. Sometimes, the internet just isn't enough.

For me, 2004/2005 was about the peak. The clubs were packed and extras were becoming available. Since then everything has gone downhill, IMHO. Background checks, no smoking, etc... has had a big impact. My favorite used to be CR and it's terrible now.

What people seem to forget is that if there were a market for a super elegant club with knockouts and a no touch policy there would be one. The simple fact is the economics don't support it.

I was at a strip club last night. I had a hot girl giving me a dance. After a couple of dances, she wanted to go to VIP. I asked how much, she said 200 for a HJ. I just laughed and said no thanks.

How long ago was it that the Penthouse key club had the private rooms you could "rent" and pretty much anything went as long as there was a mutually agreed on price?

Back in the mid - 90's, The Men's Club had some of the hottest talent going and several ladies from there went into Playboy including Holly Witt and the PMOY Stacy Sanches from here in Dallas.

Holly is overly made up in this Playboy shoot:
http://www.club-playmates-videos.com...ly-witt05.html

Stacy was hot but her sister was even hotter and they both were stripping at TMC before Stacy went on Playboy

http://playmatehunter.com/stacy-sanches.html

Others from that same club and TMC in Houston adorned Playboy and I still have that one issue one of my ATF girls appeared in and she also appeared in D Magazine when they talked about the change to "Gentleman's Clubs" from strip clubs.

Fun times.

There are still plenty of very hot gals working the poles at the various places but to find them you need to spend the time looking and mostly I don't have the time to waste anymore sitting there.

Oh Holly! I know her. Still lives here in the metroplex. Still is one HOT lady. Nov 95 if I remember correctly

I am surprised magazines like playboy can even still surive with all the "real" action guys can get now-a-days, but i guess in very rural places where they dont have strip clubs or porn stores, they still have to subscribe to playboy to see some hot tail , HaHa

I am surprised magazines like playboy can even still surive with all the "real" action guys can get now-a-days, but i guess in very rural places where they dont have strip clubs or porn stores, they still have to subscribe to playboy to see some hot tail , HaHa Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Playboy was always overrated as a source for this stuff, even way before you were born. I always preferred to look through the JC Penny circulars that came in the mail, searching for the one or two ladies who looked like you.

Holly is overly made up in this Playboy shoot:
http://www.club-playmates-videos.com...ly-witt05.html

Stacy was hot but her sister was even hotter and they both were stripping at TMC before Stacy went on Playboy

http://playmatehunter.com/stacy-sanches.html

So when did the grooming we know today become popular?

I see way to much bush in those pictures.

Dont forget, Playboy and other mags now have extensive online sites. I would suppect Playboy makes more off its Cyber Club than the print mag. And, taking a computer into the bathroom is not always pratical :-)

I am surprised magazines like playboy can even still surive with all the "real" action guys can get now-a-days, but i guess in very rural places where they dont have strip clubs or porn stores, they still have to subscribe to playboy to see some hot tail , HaHa Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I am surprised magazines like playboy can even still surive with all the "real" action guys can get now-a-days, but i guess in very rural places where they dont have strip clubs or porn stores, they still have to subscribe to playboy to see some hot tail , HaHa Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Personally, I always went to south Dallas to get the latest copy of "Black Tail", but the online option probably has ruined those former works of art.

I am surprised magazines like playboy can even still surive with all the "real" action guys can get now-a-days, but i guess in very rural places where they dont have strip clubs or porn stores, they still have to subscribe to playboy to see some hot tail , HaHa Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Playboy can't survive. It is no longer published monthly. It is published once every 2 months now.

In rural areas they can get the Internet, so they don't have to subscribe to Playboy, either. I think you can get it on newsstands in convenience stores, but that is about it.

I have no idea why anyone would subscribe to it.