I think you are crawling in the dark looking for answers. Even on an anomynous board I don't believe you will get an honest reply to your post. Add all the "sexual experience" and "variety" with "the hobby enhances my sex life" along the semblance of truth that the guys are having to pay for sex b/c they couldn't fuck a young and hot girl in real life and you're left with a half-written equation.
I'm here because I'm a narcissist and believe the world revolves around me. I hire these girls to give me what I want and when I want it. I am selfish b/c hiring a provider is about getting sexual with another female whose sole purpose is to satisfy me. At the end of the day it's about getting it on, busting my nut and getting on with the rest of my life.
Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke
I appreciate the honesty. I think that sums it up for the some of the guys on the board, on top of their personal reasons, why they choose to hobby. I'll take your last line to get in, get out, get on with your life to include "if I wanted the girl to hang around then I'd get a girlfriend."
I'm a sex addict and the hobby affords me the opportunity to feed my addiction 24/7. When I mention being a sex addict the stereotype of a guy in a trench coat jerking off in a Victoria Secret's store probably comes to mind, but that's not me. Sorry to disappoint. I crave the attention of a female companion, but that companionship has be sexual in order for me to get that instant gratification that is void in my personal life. This leads me to avoid intimacy and practice what I consider is a safer alternative to relationships. Alas, the irony of my actions are far from reality and far from the truth.