What is the difference between an ATF and sugarbaby?

[However....I just wonder can you really make a sugarbaby out of a professional provider? Their need and demand will probably be very different from a simple college student.[/QUOTE]

It depends on the provider; how long has she been in the "business"? Does she want out, but still keep some sort of dependable income, etc? I suspect you're question is on the right track, though, b/c her demands and needs will indeed be different than a standard SD/SB arrangement - it,s just something you're going to have to explore with her, if you're interested.

Exclusivity and $10K a month Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

I couldn't tell if you were asking or making a statement....

but if you were asking in regards to me here's my response
-could I do exclusivity? Hell yes if prefere it. I don't feel the need or desire to have multiple men during the same period of time, but that's just me personally. I like to be with just one person and when i'm with that person i'm with them.

weird thing is I wouldn't expect or ask the same thing of the SD because I know men are men and they sometimes crave "variety". so if he wanted to sometimes visit a provider to add that extra spice for the month its all peaches. if he wanted to bring a provider into Our play time....well that would be an interesting experience I'd personally like to indulge in if given the chance.

-now the 10k part is where I draw up short. I do NOT in Any way think at 22 think I am mature enough to handle receiving 10k a month. I would lose my freakin mind and become incredibly spoiled, Not without enthusiastic appreciation mind you but again, I wouldn't know how to handle 10k/Month.

1.) because I couldn't comprehend why someone would divulge so much money to me.

2.) what the heck would I do with it all??? I suspect I would have to have said SD immediately put half out it into highly recommended investments and stock, I don't even wanna see the other half just invest it for my future earnings

3.) without knowing anything about the specifics or the arrangement I would automatically assume that any guy willing to give a girl a budget like that would have really high expectations. like I'd have to constantly look a certain way and their might even be some restrictions on what I could do with my personal self. the idea of that kind of pressure to constantly live up to someone high standards scares me. mostly because failure scares me. who wants to be the disappointer? when the stakes are That high? o.O(clearly I am Not a gambler)
Also I suspect any SD with an SB budget like that would probably want some hott blonde spinner. I do not fall into that category. (well except my hair IS currently honey blonde and I am hot.)

so bottom line I'd be weary of someone offering me 10k a month and would have to know Exactly what they expected of me and this arrangement before I agreed to anything. I'd probably ask that to lower it too just cause I've never had anyone offer me So much that it would make me uncomfortable.

The biggest difference between a ATF and a Sugarbaby is the number of clients.

Exclusivity and $10K a month Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

Yep yep!! I agree. If you want her to be exclusive, the amount must replace her current monthly income. $10K a month sounds reasonable.

Yep yep!! I agree. If you want her to be exclusive, the amount must replace her current monthly income. $10K a month sounds reasonable. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Geez I'd be lucky to be making That much money on my own.

Exclusivity and 10K a month is from the male perspective

She is going to be exclusive to me.
It is going to cost me about 10k a month to make it happen.

That does not equate into 10k spending cash for the sugar baby.

With all the Sugardaddy sites, there is really no difference between a provider and a sugarbaby online. No matter how much you "sugarcoat" it, I guess everyone has a selling price these days.

I'm pretty sure that there are sugarbabies out there who make much more than the top providers here.

Overall, being a sugar baby myself, I think that the main difference between escorting and sugaring is that the relationship is much more personal and detailed.

My First SD was not rich at all and he never gave me an allowance per say. However, he has been there through some turning points in my life. He helped me get back into School, and he is currently trying to help me with a regular job when I graduate.

I will always remember what he said to me..."There is not enough time in the world to do things for the people that I love."

I love that man and if he ever needed anything, I would certainly be there. Money can't buy compassion!

Exclusivity and 10K a month is from the male perspective

She is going to be exclusive to me.
It is going to cost me about 10k a month to make it happen.

That does not equate into 10k spending cash for the sugar baby. Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

Yes, I understand what you mean now. I look forward to the day I can be exclusive to one man, and one man only. My partner in crime...we will travel, adventure, be active and do weird things together and look out for one another. :-) I'm such a hopeless romantic. LOL.
My dream will come true...after I reach my financial goal.

Yes, I understand what you mean now. I look forward to the day I can be exclusive to one man, and one man only. My partner in crime...we will travel, adventure, be active and do weird things together and look out for one another. :-) I'm such a hopeless romantic. LOL.
My dream will come true...after I reach my financial goal. Originally Posted by samantha thom

OMG Samantha!!! I wish I were in Dallas I'd probably help you meet that financial goal!

You're very attractive! And a hopeless romantice, too!