I'm not a fan of someone else knowing what it is I do, or whom I'm seeing. I declined seeing someone I sent a msg to through P411 when she said she would need my last name and verify it on my DL. I said No Thanks, stating that my 20 or so Okays on P411 from ladies with pages of reviews should be enough to verify I am who I say I am, and ensure her safety, and she is free to contact any one of them.
I respect her for wanting to keep herself safe, but I also respect keeping a lower profile for whom I visit, and dont need others knowing it.
Cheers
Originally Posted by haya1300
Very well said. While I will never try to dissuade a provider from screening or verifying me, I will not go through a process that reveals too much private information. I will never reveal my last name. I will never give out a phone number other than my hobby phone #. I have "okays' and "vouches" from numerous providers. I am always respectful and courteous in all my communications. While I may not be a "volume" client, I believe I have a good enough track record without having to reveal certain private information. If my failure to provide the required information keeps me from seeing a certain provider, I move on with no ill feelings.