Does it matter to you if you're on provider buzz.com

There are at least half a dozen sites out there where ladies can post alerts on guys.
SOME of them don't check out the ladies and will accept anyone with a credit card. Fuck that.
Providerbuzz is at least somewhat more secure.
In any case, ladies can look by area or by a guy's name or handle and search through results.
Some of the "alerts" are just BS stuff like
"This guy bashes women on a message board."
or
"This guy does nothing but stir up drama on a board and never writes reviews"

is that even an alert? wtf?
SO... when "ladies" who repeatedly post shit like THAT post anything else, I'm suspicious of it. I'd assume it was another guy who annoyed her in some way online.

Alerts can also be posted on by other ladies.
If lady A starts an alert about dude X, lady B can post on there to say she had the same problem, or to say that she's been seeing him for 2 years and never had any issues.
I've done both. I've chimed in on some alerts to say I had a similar experience, and I've chimed in on a couple to say I'd seen X guy a few times and he was never less than a gentleman.

So while you guys may not see PB (unless some twat is giving you access)
some of y'all have ladies rebutting alerts for you. Your own WKs! lol

And I'll +1 that SKF is funny and sweet, but we never played BCD :-<
hmph!

I was told, in a thread out in the open, that I was on provider buzz. I don't know why anyone had anything bad to say but I am willing to give a free 2hr session to the poster to make it up to them.

I am also offering a discount to any other providers to show them that I am a good guy and a perfect gentleman. Oh, but they have to post positive comments and basically WK me.

Anyone?

One of my favorite sayings is " The Guilty Dog Barks First."

Alert lists are NO THREAT to the guys that conduct themselves as they KNOW they should. And the smart ones KNOW that the bad apples make it more difficult for EVERYONE to see ladies of their choice as ladies tighten the requirements for everyone to weed out the bad apples. It gives the good ones a backhanded pat on the back to know their names are NOT blacklisted.

As SKF said, if you are alerted on, it means you "flubbed up". The majority of the ladies will NOT alert on you unless you broke one of the BIG RULES.

Act like a gentleman.
Be CLEAN.
Pay the agreed amount.
Don't overstay W/O compensation.
Accept boundaries.
Avoid NCNS.

Sure, some ladies WILL still see you as they know that YMMV applies to guys too ( and honestly, some people will take ANYTHING that comes along). BUT the ladies that can afford to be picky with who they see ( the A Team Group) will not take a chance on meeting with a bad appointment.

As to lies, certainly, there are some that WILL post untrue things for revenge, BUT SO WILL GUYS THAT coin has TWO sides.

So, if your tail got stepped on, then it should not have been in the walking path in the first place.

LT

One of my favorite sayings is " The Guilty Dog Barks First."

Alert lists are NO THREAT to the guys that conduct themselves as they KNOW they should. And the smart ones KNOW that the bad apples make it more difficult for EVERYONE to see ladies of their choice as ladies tighten the requirements for everyone to weed out the bad apples. It gives the good ones a backhanded pat on the back to know their names are NOT blacklisted.

As SKF said, if you are alerted on, it means you "flubbed up". The majority of the ladies will NOT alert on you unless you broke one of the BIG RULES.

Act like a gentleman.
Be CLEAN.
Pay the agreed amount.
Don't overstay W/O compensation.
Accept boundaries.
Avoid NCNS.

Sure, some ladies WILL still see you as they know that YMMV applies to guys too ( and honestly, some people will take ANYTHING that comes along). BUT the ladies that can afford to be picky with who they see ( the A Team Group) will not take a chance on meeting with a bad appointment.

As to lies, certainly, there are some that WILL post untrue things for revenge, BUT SO WILL GUYS THAT coin has TWO sides.

So, if your tail got stepped on, then it should not have been in the walking path in the first place.

LT Originally Posted by lemontrees

Thanks for your reply it shows a lot of wisdom.

I would not worry about it.

depends who writes the alerts. is she credible? depends on the alert.

As a former Mod of ASPD and still one on H2, I have a list of OBSESSED STALKERS, CRAZY MothaF!s, a list of ladies who are victims of stalkers, rip offs, have been nc/ns, etc.

Then you have the providers who will kiss ass and leak thinking she's going to get brownie pts and more biz from that guy?! Luckily for some of you guys, there are desperate providers out there who needs the money so they will take that chance and see you ALERT guys anyway.. so why bitch? WTF ever... speaking of, the thread starter, how do you know you're on ProviderBuzz? Who leaked it to you sweetheart for you to start this thread. And the ones who have posted openly that they don't p4p anymore , retired, why are you still here?

I want to go back to the comment about sofia, wayward and I killing each other.

That is absolutely wrong..................I thinck sofia and I could take him.

It just another hooktard list...............I finally made it on one for my posts in hooktard threads.

I am feeling manly after all of this chatter.

I thinck I'll go set up a session with the bountiful Amber Brooks.

WTF ever... speaking of, the thread starter, how do you know you're on ProviderBuzz? Who leaked it to you sweetheart for you to start this thread. And the ones who have posted openly that they don't p4p anymore , retired, why are you still here? Originally Posted by caroline!

Someone told him in an open forum. It may have been on aspd. I remember being a bit peeved about it.

One of my favorite sayings is " The Guilty Dog Barks First."

Alert lists are NO THREAT to the guys that conduct themselves as they KNOW they should. And the smart ones KNOW that the bad apples make it more difficult for EVERYONE to see ladies of their choice as ladies tighten the requirements for everyone to weed out the bad apples. It gives the good ones a backhanded pat on the back to know their names are NOT blacklisted.

As SKF said, if you are alerted on, it means you "flubbed up". The majority of the ladies will NOT alert on you unless you broke one of the BIG RULES.

Act like a gentleman.
Be CLEAN.
Pay the agreed amount.
Don't overstay W/O compensation.
Accept boundaries.
Avoid NCNS.

Sure, some ladies WILL still see you as they know that YMMV applies to guys too ( and honestly, some people will take ANYTHING that comes along). BUT the ladies that can afford to be picky with who they see ( the A Team Group) will not take a chance on meeting with a bad appointment.

As to lies, certainly, there are some that WILL post untrue things for revenge, BUT SO WILL GUYS THAT coin has TWO sides.

So, if your tail got stepped on, then it should not have been in the walking path in the first place.

LT Originally Posted by lemontrees

LT while I completely agree with your adage that it is usually the guilty that are the ones who bark first, a facet of life I have found to be true as well, I don't agree with you in regards to the second item I emphasized in my quote of your post. That thought represents an absolute in my opinion and is very debatable. I am constrained to point out that in my view what your second thought conveys is not necessarily true particularly when those alert sites are used by providers to out guys personal information such as has been done on sites like The National Blacklist for non-P4P issues.

If providers collude with each other and can use one such site in a dishonest fashion then the stage is set for others to be used in a similar fashion. The difference with a review site is while there are many false reviews the providers can rebut those reviews however the alerts sites have no such mechanism for the guys. Additionally those alert sites do not do any work in determining who is telling the truth and who is not therefore, by that measure, they are as corrupt as they can be.

In my view, the review sites have a way for a provider to post a rebuttal such that false information can be identified which means that there is some semblance of due process and checks and balances in place. However, the alert sites don’t have the aforementioned protections and that makes them very dangerous to the guys. Some guys who run afoul of an ill tempered provider, which may be entirely due to her own issues, or game playing, and to items completely outside of the P4P world, become the object of the provider’s obsession and get’s trashed in a way that is unrelated to the hobby which is not acceptable and is, in fact, dangerous since his personal information gets outed on the sites being discussed.

I know because…

hrmmm.. as i recall there were more than one occasion where sofia made fun of carkido for being blacklisted. dont recall when she first aired that dirty laundy but it happened

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and HH threw around "the list" as well.

Instead of worrying about hurting your hobbying, you might ask yourself what you are doing wrong that got you on providerbuzz.com in the first place. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Could have been as simple as accurately accounting a providers flaws in a review.

Were you able to see who put up the info and what they said? That could narrow it down.

I mean ASPD as a whole was on there!

As a former hobbyist of ASPD and still one on eccie, I have a list of ..............ok, I admit I got nothing.

Then you have the hobbyists who will kiss ass and leak thincking he's going to get brownie pts and more biz from that girl?! Luckily for some of you girls, there are desperate hobbyists out there who needs the money so they will take that chance and see you worthless skanks anyway.. so why bitch? WTF ever... speaking of, the thread starter, wear your listing on ProviderBuzz like a badge. When sofia leaked it to you, she was impressed by your demeanor. And the ones who have posted openly that they don't p4p anymore , retired, hang out as long as you like.

.................it's like a sword that cuts both ways.

As a former hobbyist of ASPD and still one on eccie, I have a list of ..............ok, I admit I got nothing.

Then you have the hobbyists who will kiss ass and leak thincking he's going to get brownie pts and more biz from that girl?! Luckily for some of you girls, there are desperate hobbyists out there who needs the money so they will take that chance and see you worthless skanks anyway.. so why bitch? WTF ever... speaking of, the thread starter, wear your listing on ProviderBuzz like a badge. When sofia leaked it to you, she was impressed by your demeanor. And the ones who have posted openly that they don't p4p anymore , retired, hang out as long as you like.

.................it's like a sword that cuts both ways. Originally Posted by dearhunter

Thanks DearHunter always quick and to point.
Have fun in Singapore with all those Asian honeys.

Fuck their Buzzlist.....................p arty on.

You have a list, too.

Jackson, Grant and Benjamin..................they trump some hooktard list every time.

That list works in Singapore as well.