Providers not providing references for other providers?

Maybe somebody should suggest ECCIE start a Provider OK Forum.

Maybe somebody should suggest ECCIE start a Provider OK Forum. Originally Posted by Prolongus

Ya I think I remember someone suggesting that recently.

Most newer ladies I won't even bother asking for a reference because it's a hassle. I encourage guys wanting to see me to get on p411 to make it easier for everyone. I can't recall off the top of my head who hasn't gotten back to me. I'm sure there's a few. Tbc...

Not sure if you're talking about the girls on the blacklist or me - I've been on the blacklist a long time - worked hard and posted much to get that distinction

Kudos to the ladies with the courtesy and "balls" to name names. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

I wasn't talking about you. I was talking to you so you can see the providers who were not reference friendly. The blacklist was referring to your own personal blacklist of providers not to see as you requested in your earlier post.

OK I went and looked.

Of the six ladies I asked last month for a reference, only one responded.

They are:

Ember Simmers
Chloe Monroe
SexyAssDevyn
alyssiajuarez
Kylee Lynn

The one who responded:

Nina_rose

I recently asked Eva Damita and Sweet Sierra for references and both responded quickly and kindly. Very professional and it's so nice to deal with them.

Maybe it's been said already but when you have pimps running these girls you're not sending a pm to that actual provider ijs....I would bet almost every single girl that posts here in coed is pimp free. Almost

I recently asked Eva Damita and Sweet Sierra for references and both responded quickly and kindly. Very professional and it's so nice to deal with them. Originally Posted by THN

Anytime baby!

This thread is why I prefer p411. With my time being more limited now, I want the screening process to be easy as possible and don't want to waste anyone time.

I just got a reference rquests back that i had asked for over a year ago! Well I guess at least she answered..lol

I try to be quick on response but I do work n outside of this so. Ladies I am reference friendly and I don't see anyone as competition

I TRY to answer all ref's but sometimes real life happens.

Like spending 16 hours traveling and a week at grandma's.

Noooooo way I'm getting on eccie there.

Great post Kimber! Especially compared to many many others on here. Im sure a lot more ladies will be a lot more ref friendly thanks to you. And, thanks to the ladies who post the non friendly ones. If the shoe fits....you should get called out

Great post Kimber! Especially compared to many many others on here. Im sure a lot more ladies will be a lot more ref friendly thanks to you. And, thanks to the ladies who post the non friendly ones. If the shoe fits....you should get called out Originally Posted by Tsmokies

Thanks,
My attempt wasn't to be petty or sabotage anyone but I really feel like these type of providers ruin it for everyone here. I hope that those girls and others realize the importance of responding and asking for references. Not to mention the golden rule "Do unto others as you want done unto you" I also want hobbyist to know that it's not always the provider that's screening them that's procrastinating sending them through loops. The screening process shouldn't be complicated in any way.

OK I went and looked.

Of the six ladies I asked last month for a reference, only one responded.

They are:

Ember Simmers
Chloe Monroe
SexyAssDevyn
alyssiajuarez
Kylee Lynn

The one who responded:

Nina_rose

I recently asked Eva Damita and Sweet Sierra for references and both responded quickly and kindly. Very professional and it's so nice to deal with them. Originally Posted by THN

No problem cutie pie! I give references because... well hell, I was raised to treat others as I want to be treated. And, I have been on the other side of a client's fist fighting for my life. One gent gave me as a reference to 8 women in one week, and I responded to all promptly.

I do have a certain understanding to the reality of the "game" so to speak...

Allow me to play Devil's Advocate here, some may understand, yet not agree to this:

My (extra) income from this NEVER depends on the word of a stranger much less a woman who I have never met before conducting illegal business. No, we are not all "friends". This is business. I am a reference friendly companion, and as THN notes, I respond to references promptly and always respond professionally. When gents send me their references, I sometimes send them a link to my screening form also known as my "Affair application". I do this in case none of the references respond in enough time (or at all). By all means, It's not the references fault, and like clients, I am not entitled to the references time (hell, they could be at work, with family, a multi-hour, court, none of your business) because I don't want to (learn how to) do my own homework or *develop* a screening process not involving other parties regarding me and intimacy with a gentleman. Not only that, I am very discreet. This means I don't want providers and companions knowing who I am fucking... or who the gentleman is about to fuck for that matter.

References definitely do make screening easy, especially when the gentleman has no online presence or even a couple reviews to prove he is safe. But again as mentioned before, what may be polite, safe and generous to one companion, may be the polar opposite to another. That's why I feel it's important for *professional* companions to develop their own screening process fitting their business and personal preferences/needs. Can't do it? Join an agency. Just like references, they do all the redundant screening for you! Just expect to split all your money

In addition to regarding WHY some ladies are not reference friendly because she intends to have the client for "herself"(), there are even more professional companions who simply don't feel it fair that they took their time out their day when they seen the gentleman to screen him through her lengthy screening process just to tell another woman a simple "yay or nay". She gets a new sugar daddy, or generous and consistent regular - you get a " thanks" and a warm fuzzy feeling inside.

Keep in mind that we sell our time and it takes time to give and respond to a reference from looking up accurate records. On the other hand sometimes I don't like asking for references or contacting references when they are provided in case the gentleman does not follow through with an appointment. Not only have I wasted my time screening, but I've wasted the references time in responding to me and going back in her records and notes to see if he is safe.

Do you really think I'd pass on a pleasurable experience and profitable opportunity because so and so provider happens to have her family day the same day I want to screw a man's brains out for my mortgage and need a response within the next couple of hours?? Nope. I'm not the one, the two, or three.

#evolve

Eva