Excuse me everyone for hijacking this thread for one moment!
Dannie, I was responding to steeplechase post in giving my personal opinion, which I am allowed to do! My remark (about Multi tasking) was not directed at anyone not even you Dannie... It was just my honest opinion.... So don't take the remark so personal it had nothing to do with you, and you really shouldn't have singled me out and your remark was very tacky, I never said you were a sorry hooker or not worthy, not my style babe to ever belittle anyone !! But since you did, let me tell you about being busy! I work a real job just as you do, I have 3 kids, 4 grandchildren, a life and I hobby on the side so trust me Dannie I know all about being busy and yes I still find time to answer all my emails and pm's daily!
Originally Posted by fawn
not so much a hijack, but when we cant see each other when we "talk", we miss out on so much.
hopefully by now, people reading this thread understand that some women and some men get back to inquiries rather quickly, some in a day or two, and some take quite a long while.
and that we should plan according to this fact of life.
thus, people reading this thread should know
after you say/write/email/text/post something to someone else,
you should
NOT expect the intended recipient to get back to you promptly, according to your timescale.
if you want that, you better be in a face-to-face conversation w/ them [but, according to zuckerberg's biography, even he doesnt always respond to the person talking to him].
so, fawn, i just looked back at the posts - she said in a followup post that she is "a lazy hooker!" then pt4m said it and she said it again.
she never said that you said that.
i interpreted the "I'm not worthy" as humor and not criticism. [for context, see her response to PT4ME and his repsonse to her response]
hell, i'm a lazy man who takes one or two days or even longer to reply to emails [hobby, personal, work, other]. it just depends on how important and urgent i decide the message is.
plus, like most of us on here, i have a real life as well - family, job, friends as well as being an elected officer of an organization w/ monthly meetings to plan/run and many personalities to deal with. [sometimes, i wish i could ban some of them :^]
anyhow, the point i'm making is ....
the sooner people realize that providing/hobbying is not everyone's complete life, the sooner people may, repeat, may understand that replies wont come instantaneously!!
[for instance, one guy was pm'ing me about a provider. we exchanged several pm's. then i said i was going on vacation and would be out of touch for a couple of weeks, so dont expect any replies. he responded "what? they dont have internet access where you're going??" guess he thought that w/ my post count that i am my own wi-fi spot and am always on eccie.]