I'll put it like this. The majority of my life I've been single so I know what it's like to be single and sexless. I live a very simple life.
Now I'm going to be honest. If she's as hot as a fire cracker, sexy as hell, has an insatiable desire to please me, I'll more than likely let her slide with being a provider as long as my needs are being taken care of. She can fuck 3 guys in a day for $250 each as long as she knows to shower, mouthwash, brush, douche, at her spot by 10pm, pull up into my apartment by midnight when I'm tired as hell and horny, wear a sexy short dress with heels, crawl into my bed as I'm lying on my back, and seductively GFE+PSE all night till I'm 4 in the morning...
Shiiiit. I just got pussy-whipped and satisfied. Why would I "cheat" on that? I'd have no other sexual need to be fulfilled b/c she's fulfilling it both in the fantasy realm (dressing sexy and putting on the role as my sex queen ie being on the pill, letting me hit it raw, and letting baby talk be something in the distant future) and in actuality (fucking/suckin/seducing/making love to me). So on that aspect I'm good. I'm not "cheating" on her. I'd be monogomous to that.
I mean..then what the hell else would I want? Seriously? To go shopping together? ok no problem. watch tv and hang out? ok..when I have the time.
So what she fucks other dudes. Look at her, she has legs for days, a slim tummy, a sexy face, tits, ass..she's a banging chick. Guys see her and think "sex" automatically. You ever see a provider, porn star, or woman in general who's so sexy you just thinkg "damn, that body can be a hot commodity..a money maker.." Think Esther Baxter in her prime. Guys sometimes need to step outside the box. They see a super sexy female and want her to themselves, fantacize about her, etc..Dude, keep it real. She's sexy as fuck and her body can bring $$$. It's like me dating a world class female sprinter and me telling her not to train and go to the olympics b/c I want her to myself in the house to cook, clean, and hang with me to make me happy..FUCK THAT..go out there and do your thing girl you're good at what you do and you got the skills to back it up.
Now of course this just can't be any ol' chick. You have to fit the role. You can't be a chick who can blend in with civilian life. No, there's a sexy distinction about you that triggers lustful thoughts from men everytime you dress up to go out.
I've only encountered one chick on this site that I have in mind who has both the inner freak, sexiness, and the sex game to keep me blinded from reality, morals, traditional companionship desires, etc.. and that's Amazing Asia
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