please! just the sexy talk, NOT the daily life stuff

I feel that each client has different expectations and needs for a session. There may be a client that wants to spend the entire hour with nothing but conversation and that's fine. An experienced provider can read the client and the situation and cater the session to his needs.
On the other hand, I've seen experienced providers decide to stop a BJ and make some irrelevant comment about something I don't care about and then go back to business which totally kills any IOP.

This can be a big benefit to having a regular repeat customer. You can get past all of the unknowns and you should know what each other's expectations are. Originally Posted by L.A.

I feel that each client has different expectations and needs for a session. There may be a client that wants to spend the entire hour with nothing but conversation and that's fine. An experienced provider can read the client and the situation and cater the session to his needs.
On the other hand, I've seen experienced providers decide to stop a BJ and make some irrelevant comment about something I don't care about and then go back to business which totally kills any IOP.

This can be a big benefit to having a regular repeat customer. You can get past all of the unknowns and you should know what each other's expectations are. Originally Posted by L.A.

I agree.

That is why I fill out my p411 profile completely and let the provider know what I am looking for in a session I pay for. Some ladies do not like that and say they prefer just going with the flow of a session, but many like the fact that they do not have to read my mind. IMO, the client, the provider or both can dictate the flow, but since it is the client paying, as long as it does not step over the provider's boundaries and what is comfortable for her, his wishes should prevail.


The getting aquainted text/talk before the session along with the small talk either before/after the session or in between pops may be a good time for a provider to express to her client how to relax and make her comfortable.

I agree.

That is why I fill out my p411 profile completely and let the provider know what I am looking for in a session I pay for. Some ladies do not like that and say they prefer just going with the flow of a session, but many like the fact that they do not have to read my mind. IMO, the client, the provider or both can dictate the flow, but since it is the client paying, as long as it does not step over the provider's boundaries and what is comfortable for her, his wishes should prevail.


The getting aquainted text/talk before the session along with the small talk either before/after the session or in between pops may be a good time for a provider to express to her client how to relax and make her comfortable. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I agree with this completely! I hate trying to read someone’s mind! I always read the P-411 Bio. If you are respectful and not being crude, I have no problem with knowing what you like and want. Makes it cut and dry! If it’s not something I’m comfortable with, I will respectfully decline.

Xoxoxoxo!

Lindsey lee...if someone is paying you for an encounter....I'm pretty sure they are not there for you to read their mind. I'm pretty sure they are there to encounter you IMO

Am I visiting different providers than everyone else? I have never had this be a problem. I have enjoyed about 90% of the conversations I have had. When I don't enjoy the session it is usually because the girl is all business, and doesn't show her personality. But as anyone who has seen me will tell you, I am easy to talk to and get along with. In the end, what we all expect to both give and receive that will be pleasing to us is individually arbitrated. There is no single standard.

You probably do a better job of selecting ladies to see than others. The ladies I see know it's 2 minutes of action and 58 minutes of my nap time.

I am entertained by the self alerts Fucktards post ... carry on.

to clarify my point - my preference is to NOT hear about the provider's real world or adult sex entertainment world problems unless i ask her how things are, etc. (which is rare esp on a first appt).

i'm not asking about the provider and i talking about the kinds of consulting services things i am after or what she likes/doesnt like, will/wont do, etc.

i'm just asking/hoping that the provider keeps conversation focused on the appt.


and this goes both ways - i'm not there to moan and groan about my real world or adult sex entertainment world problems. i'm there for delites.

and i get that some clients want to talk for some or most of the session (one provider who i had consulted w/ for several yrs told me one guy paid her just to read books to him). it's the guy's session - he's paying for her time, not me.


i agree with Lindsay - i "respect her and will treat her respectfully. I’d want the best service ... You get more with kindness!

Yes you are the person handing out the cash, but we have the key to “Good” pussy or “Bad” pussy :-)"
yep, you have the goods and i have the gold. let's barter :^)


bottom line, i'm bringing up a topic i've had w/ a couple other clients. and i'm just stating my session talk preferences.

Well, I do this kind of thing professionally so if you really need to unload, feel free to let me know. I do charge and it's not cheap.

Vic

Crock... I’m sorry but you are still putting words in my mouth..... If you come into our private, closed door space acting like a prick and being disrespectful you are probably not gonna get good luvin! Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

When I read your original post that is exactly where my mind went. Providers are human beings with real emotions. Treat them well and they will treat you well. Act like a DS and you will.... not get the full benefit.

It's a shame you had to explain that further, Lindsay. I thought it was intuitively obvious.

Vic