10 reason not pay a deposit.

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  • BLM69
  • 06-05-2023, 09:50 PM
Wimpy said it best: “I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a fish taco today".

About 4 weeks ago I went to a shop for a session with a regular. Had left my wallet at work and informed her. She said no problem pay me later which I did that evening. Originally Posted by Michael8219
She's a keeper
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  • Busty
  • 06-06-2023, 02:19 PM
Reasons to have Deposits

1 Deposits is part of a payment for touring providers that insures HE doesn't play games & waste her time
2 if she has a excellent track record and doesn't scam men, She has every right to get a deposit
3 same as any professional business, deposits or some kind of payment is asked for upfront. Application fee, background check fee for apartments, & other predisposed fees for securing services
4 Some women are using small deposits as a payment for doing safety screening because it is time consuming and considered work. Whether the man sees her or not, she is getting paid for her job
5 Not all deposits are astronomical amounts, pay attention. She is not trying to scam anyone with a $50 deposit.
6 Inflation is high and gas ain't cheap, deposits are used for touring providers travel expenses since he did a prebooked appointment.
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Reasons to have Deposits

1 Deposits is part of a payment for touring providers that insures HE doesn't play games & waste her time
2 if she has a excellent track record and doesn't scam men, She has every right to get a deposit
3 same as any professional business, deposits or some kind of payment is asked for upfront. Application fee, background check fee for apartments, & other predisposed fees for securing services
4 Some women are using small deposits as a payment for doing safety screening because it is time consuming and considered work. Whether the man sees her or not, she is getting paid for her job
5 Not all deposits are astronomical amounts, pay attention. She is not trying to scam anyone with a $50 deposit.
6 Inflation is high and gas ain't cheap, deposits are used for touring providers travel expenses since he did a prebooked appointment. Originally Posted by Busty
1. She traveling ?? Who know she going to show up. ??
2. There other ways to verify, some one I have year to see that track record. I lucky to get them even pick up. Even more if there two with good records she would have to good record at discount rates. Just don't happen.
3. Some professional want a deposit, some jobs like Disney want you to pay a deposit just to work for them. After I got in student Disney work program there offter to pay me $6.85 a hour I told them FU. Keep in mine this is considered illegal or questionable at best.
4. Her safety at the risk of you well being If some care that little about me there can go F them self hope it pays well.
5. That what the guy in India saying just pay a little feed the scammers.
Some text and won't even talk and are far less than good reviews
If have had her tongue down my throat like the movie species I don't know she real.
6. Touring I don't see since it take me 2 weeks min to do her verification,
Touring better know is on the run she scam all guy in last town.
Yes with inflation price goes up what pay the woman. Again she would have have good review and discount to make deposit justifiable. Otherwise a scammer.

7. This is comming from someone with 30 post and no review. Maybe of any on her would justified getting a small deposit would Danielle silver. Yeat she pull her everything..

Again every deposit add I seen posted is scam. Better to just avoid. If want be a internet sex scammer good for you if want be real internet prostitute it not how typically going go.

Part B
I generally goes like this a guy calls and makes a appointment he
You come to his place or you see him at yours. Has cash in a may be in envelope is put on a table you can take it. You expect to do something sexual with him most of time the prostitute will. If she don't he can try to take the money back or let her go. He gives her a review if eccie member. Bad review you don't see at all. If she ask for money out of room dispite she could leave her room run..
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  • Busty
  • 06-06-2023, 02:36 PM
Reasons to have Deposits

1 Deposits is part of a payment for touring providers that insures HE doesn't play games & waste her time
2 if she has a excellent track record and doesn't scam men, She has every right to get a deposit
3 same as any professional business, deposits or some kind of payment is asked for upfront. Application fee, background check fee for apartments, & other predisposed fees for securing services
4 Some women are using small deposits as a payment for doing safety screening because it is time consuming and considered work. Whether the man sees her or not, she is getting paid for her job
5 Not all deposits are astronomical amounts, pay attention. She is not trying to scam anyone with a $50 deposit.
6 Inflation is high and gas ain't cheap, deposits are used for touring providers travel expenses since he did a prebooked appointment.
7 The men that compare other businesses to escort work should take all things into consideration, such as Escorts being compared to attorneys salaries in many cases as seen in forum discussions. Attorneys charge retainer fees up front. Fair game. Goes both ways
8 Deposit abuse can be eliminated by filing a complaint with the cash app endorser, credit card company.
Ripmany's Avatar
Reasons to have Deposits

1 Deposits is part of a payment for touring providers that insures HE doesn't play games & waste her time
2 if she has a excellent track record and doesn't scam men, She has every right to get a deposit
3 same as any professional business, deposits or some kind of payment is asked for upfront. Application fee, background check fee for apartments, & other predisposed fees for securing services
4 Some women are using small deposits as a payment for doing safety screening because it is time consuming and considered work. Whether the man sees her or not, she is getting paid for her job
5 Not all deposits are astronomical amounts, pay attention. She is not trying to scam anyone with a $50 deposit.
6 Inflation is high and gas ain't cheap, deposits are used for touring providers travel expenses since he did a prebooked appointment.
7 The men that compare other businesses to escort work should take all things into consideration, such as Escorts being compared to attorneys salaries in many cases as seen in forum discussions. Attorneys charge retainer fees up front. Fair game. Goes both ways
8 Deposit abuse can be eliminated by filing a complaint with the cash app endorser, credit card company. Originally Posted by Busty
1. Somehow her time important and Evey guy time not important. Because she only see low life? Guys on ssi?
2. Have yet to truly see that what a track record. Maybe enough to leave money on table of feel safe meeting.
3. This is not a professional business and look at how many of them scam.rember she at least asking you do stomting illegal.
4. Still feeding scammers.
5. That the guy in India get $50.00 or even $5.00 I don't want to pay one cent to scamer.
6. If she touring mostly likely she fake.
7. Up front in room and most people pay attorney fees up front because they are desperate in jail. The Insurance defense attorney don't get paid up front.
You don't pay contractors up front.
8. If you you know charge back work you never take a deposit because soon as guy walks out he just take the money back. Now sound like a internet scamer. There get thousands of guys all over to fall for a $50.00 scam think she real because her fake review and adds. Maybe a hundred will be charge back but he just got 45k hobby Money.
I know how to hobby and will help others..
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  • Busty
  • 06-06-2023, 04:17 PM
Let me clarify
LEGIT VERIFIED PROVIDERS

Reasons to have Deposits

1 Verified Providers -Deposits is part of a payment for touring providers that insures HE doesn't play games & waste her time
2 Legit verified providers-if she has a excellent track record and doesn't scam men, She has every right to get a deposit
3 Legit Verified Providers -same as any professional business, deposits or some kind of payment is asked for upfront. Application fee, background check fee for apartments, & other predisposed fees for securing services
4 Legit Verified Providers -Some women are using small deposits as a payment for doing safety screening because it is time consuming and considered work. Whether the man sees her or not, she is getting paid for her job
5 Legit Verified Providers -Not all deposits are astronomical amounts, pay attention. She is not trying to scam anyone with a $50 deposit.
6 Legit Verified Providers- Inflation is high and gas ain't cheap, deposits are used for touring providers travel expenses since he did a prebooked appointment.

There aren't any Nigerian men on here with a legit track record unless he is selling his butthole and there would be actual reviews from legit hobbyist that have been around a while..
You have little faith in the Eccie system.
Of course you don't give out deposits to some person that isn't verified & doesn't have a history yet, she has to start somewhere to prove herself.
Had you understood my list, go with the ones that have great reviews and no alerts.
I trust the men that put the scammers on blast.
Don't act like every single provider is a scammer.
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
I have no Problems getting deopist's and I have given deposit's back
due to my flight being to late or had to cancle my tour for what ever reason that came up .

Not all Providers are going to scam you or ruin her reputation over a few bucks ..

There are plenty of reputable providers you can see who are not scammers.
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  • Busty
  • 06-06-2023, 05:06 PM
Wimpy said it best: “I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a fish taco today".

About 4 weeks ago I went to a shop for a session with a regular. Had left my wallet at work and informed her. She said no problem pay me later which I did that evening. Originally Posted by Michael8219

Thank you Michael for proving my point, not all providers are scammers.
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Thank you Michael for proving my point, not all providers are scammers. Originally Posted by Busty
I Pay when meet there no need not if going refund then no need deposits. Also you saying you low she some type of high life when most day she need a advance for a hotel room.
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  • BLM69
  • 06-06-2023, 08:59 PM
Wow, A refund of your own money that the client paid upfront, what's the advantage on prepaying again? I was waiting to hear that the client got some hooker money for having his time wasted.
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  • Busty
  • 06-07-2023, 04:04 AM
I didn't say anything about a hotel room.
Carry On. Lol
Personally I have not been burned on deposits but I did my research. That was back in the day though, no way would I do it now. A lot has changed in the last several years and not for the better.
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Most providers who want deposits before a session are scammers. It may be true that there are ones that are not, but by the same token, not all hobbyists are scammers who refuse to pay a deposit. It is really all about the provider wanting guaranteed money. Too bad there is not a guarantee on service, right guys?

It is all a matter of the screening process on both ends. Usually, if a provider feels she has to charge a deposit in order to make sure a hobbyist shows, then perhaps the guy has some kind of history that he NCNS, which begs the question, why would she even agree to see him to begin with? I have read so many posts about guys who were charged deposits and were taken to the cleaners but I have not read any reviews where a guy has admitted to paying a deposit beforehand. That may be because most of the ladies who have deposit requirements have a NRP, which also speaks volumes about her. Good thing this site does not honor no review policies.

When I see guys share information that a provider has monetarily compensated them for their time and expenses because he bought tickets to an outing she agreed to go with him in advance, got ready and drove halfway across town to sit in the parking lot of a hotel and get canceled on the last minute or NCNSED, ect., I will be glad to pay a deposit.

Being in the hobby comes with costs, a couple of which is being NCNSED on both ends. I cannot begin to tell you how many hundreds of dollars I have spent on buying extra tickets to hockey games, hotel rooms that I prepaid for, ect. only to have a provider cancel after agreeing to go with me. And a provider has to be able to foot the bill, be it for her traveling expenses beforehand and/or for her in call location. While you have every right to provide intel about being stood up, if you wish, if one cannot afford those initial costs, then it may be time to either not travel or rethink about being in the hobby.
Ripmany's Avatar
I didn't say anything about a hotel room.
Carry On. Lol Originally Posted by Busty
So do it in back of his car?? Back Allie? What deposit far is traveling first at moving to 69 street?.
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Personally I have not been burned on deposits but I did my research. That was back in the day though, no way would I do it now. A lot has changed in the last several years and not for the better. Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy88
You had good luck the only way I can not be burn for sure is to sock my stick in gasoline and light a match..
I get a hot every time.

P.S. kids in MODS please use adult supervision..