To each their own.
If women are willing to supply it, you can't blame the men for wanting it in some cases.
And for those who say that those who don't provide that should get out of the hobby, different strokes for different folks. You can still enjoy this hobby as a provider or a hobbyist and want to protect yourself AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE even if some think the risk is really small.
There are so many different types of strains of HPV and other viruses, or STDs, I think it's best to protect yourself as much as possible rather than just counting on nice people who *look* clean actually *being* clean.
Plus, you can google images of HPV warts inside a person's mouth. I bet ya'll aren't doing those horsey checks to see if you both aren't really asymptomatic
I love my menfolk, and I can still say that I take the best possible care of them by taking care of my health the best way I know how, and by doing that, protect them as well.
Yet, people have different priorities, and that's fine
Different strokes