Confusion

Y, you screwed up and got taken to the cleaners. Learn from it and move on. I know that it hurts, but you'll get over it. You won't however get over it until you decide to move on. That is all you can do at this point.

Be sure that you learn from this experience. Don't give any girl any money before you meet her face to face. In fact, let me rephrase that. Don't give any person, male or female, any money until you have met them face-to-face.

Sucker born every minute

She said we were still friends!!!

lmao, of course she did. She wants the opportunity to hit you up again down the road. Translated, "we're still friends" means... Why should I burn this bridge when I have him hooked and might be able to use him later.

Dude, you already fell for every other line in the Gold digger playbook, don't fall for that one too.

MOVE ON - NOW!!!

God damnit this sucks

But if I got to meet her it would all be worth it.

My fantasy was to find just one girl and become a regular so she can show me how to sex and take away my sadness. I don't want a bunch of strange girls. Just one. I don't feel as comfortable meeting a stranger. I thought she was the one. I didn't necessarily want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, just a friendly relationship one would want with someone they would lose their virginity to.

Buddy, if that's what you're looking for, you won't find it here. If you're still in rural MO, go to the next barn dance or church social, get half drunk to build up your courage, and start hitting on the local farmers daughters. But stop acting needy and lonely, man up, and some girl will be happy to pop your cherry.

If you can't do that then save your pennies, read the reviews on girls in your area and go get laid for pay. Once you have done that, finding your one girl will be a lot easier

Buddy, if that's what you're looking for, you won't find it here. If you're still in rural MO, go to the next barn dance or church social, get half drunk to build up your courage, and start hitting on the local farmers daughters. But stop acting needy and lonely, man up, and some girl will be happy to pop your cherry.

If you can't do that then save your pennies, read the reviews on girls in your area and go get laid for pay. Once you have done that, finding your one girl will be a lot easier Originally Posted by slinmo

My bet is that Yitzchak is pulling our chain. He probably gets more poontang in a weekend than the rest of us get in a month, and he's not paying for it. Yitzchak is an Israeli name. I've run across a number of young Israelis in Colombia, the mongering mecca of the western hemisphere. They're extremely fit, often having just gotten out of mandatory military service. And they're smoother with women than just about anyone. In comparison they make us look like, well, like the "Yitzchak" in this thread. The Israelis bang for free what costs your typical gringo 200,000 Colombian pesos.

God damnit this sucks

But if I got to meet her it would all be worth it.

My fantasy was to find just one girl and become a regular so she can show me how to sex and take away my sadness. I don't want a bunch of strange girls. Just one. I don't feel as comfortable meeting a stranger. I thought she was the one. I didn't necessarily want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, just a friendly relationship one would want with someone they would lose their virginity to. Originally Posted by yitzchak

Hilarious! Maybe poor Yitzchak is trying to find a provider here who will do him for free, or at a cut rate price.

No no I am not pulling any scam and I would never ask this woman or any other provider for free sex. I'm not playing any games. What I said was my fantasy is just that. I still expect to pay for her time. Just a littlr side chat would be nice, like it was when we first met.

I did ask this girl for extra time, but it was because she said she felt bad about kicking me out after just one hour, and I didnt have money left fot more time.. but I would have been find ifshe could only aee me for the hour. However, I'm not okay with total rejection and noy lnowing why

I also asked if she wanted to hang out while she was busy and to get a room at the sane hotel ... that was probably my mistake, biut I didn't know. If she wanted space she should have just said. I know I shouldn't have asked her for those things bit at the time I had no idea I was crossing boundaries.

Yitzchak is a way of spelling Isaac which is similar to my name. I'm italian and german. I'm a short scrawny kid. I'm 5'7" and 140 lbs. I've been working out almost everdat since I met this woman, about three or four months ago and I have been gaining weight and looking more moscular, and I mentioned before that I'm not ugly but I'm no stud by any stretchbof the imagination

Sorry for spelling im on my phone

She is scared you will not pay her for time spent, she owes you and feels like it will be a freebie to be with you. It's all about the dollar, do not ever tell them about your finances. Get with a legend in your area they will show you what you need and desire, move on to try different girls and this will pass quickly.

That's not true. She works for an agency and I would have paid her for her time. I told her before I tried to book her that I didn't want it for free. She's so beautiful and perfect that I know I could never have it for free. I also told her that she didn't owe me anything, that she could keep the money I gave to her.

God damnit this sucks

But if I got to meet her it would all be worth it.

My fantasy was to find just one girl and become a regular so she can show me how to sex and take away my sadness. I don't want a bunch of strange girls. Just one. I don't feel as comfortable meeting a stranger. I thought she was the one. I didn't necessarily want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, just a friendly relationship one would want with someone they would lose their virginity to. Originally Posted by yitzchak

Go for it ... do what you want ... but come back and let us know how it goes.

Why not? What else could go wrong?

Sorry to hear about your experience. Chalk it up as a loss and learn from it.

Why not? What else could go wrong? Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

I just need to really try not to send another text or Skype message. On Sunday I told her I was feeling really awful and that I wasn't strong enough to keep going. Then I felt like an idiot for texting her again, so then I sent another one saying that I was sorry and that I had anxiety which causes me to think I'm going to die for no reason. Then I felt like that was a really weird thing to say, so I sent another one saying I was sorry.

I dont send her that many texts everyday... That was just an example of the retarded crap I've sent to her. No girl responds well to that crap. I hope if I leave her alone for awhile maybe she will forgive me for those stupid texts. That is if she ever speaks to me again.

Ok I take back my previous post. You said you're going to contact her again?????. You are either an idiot or as the others have said just yanking our chain. Why would you ever contact a girl that's supposedly taken you for a ride. Maybe the stalking thing is real. Dude forget this girl. and grow a pair