1st time hobbyist.. could use any recommendations

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Whatever y'all do, don't mention GGT. Even though I've been told she's a "rite of passage" of sorts.....
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Whatever y'all do, don't mention GGT. Even though I've been told she's a "rite of passage" of sorts..... Originally Posted by TryWeakly
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  • BLM69
  • 03-28-2023, 02:00 AM
32 year old Male. Been Lurking my way around online and here for a couple weeks. What are some things that a first timer should know before contacting and using a service. Also who would be a good first experience in your opinion? Originally Posted by Jlopzz
I can teach you my ways of tricking 😆 first lesson, it's my way or the highway, second lesson, don't be a Simp, third lesson, if she wants any personal information, block her asap! The most important lesson, never send $ deposits, probably means she's homeless and needs motel $ for her and Tyrone, she'll probably ghost you later
  • pxmcc
  • 03-28-2023, 06:47 AM
^^that's some funny ass shit bro..
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  • BLM69
  • 03-29-2023, 10:11 PM
^^that's some funny ass shit bro.. Originally Posted by pxmcc
Do the opposite and lose
Welcome and there has been great advice to put you on your path. I would add, study pictures they provided. You will become an expert at “reading bodies”. If the stomach is always covered up or turned away from the camera - major surgical damage..don’t go in. If you uncover one or two photos that are not them but someone else’s …don’t go in as they can’t be trusted. AlyssaXOXO has been mentioned- perfect start. Finally, define your parameters such as only see those who offer GFE and if they don’t CIM, Dfk or allow Daty - they are not Gfe and forget about them. Good luck soldier !
Stop before you start! Instead of spending your time, money and energy going down the rabbit hole, spend them on finding a SANE, nice, lucratively employed woman to enjoy.
This "hobby" is like a kids game of "chase/tag" except you are always "it" and you can never tag all the runners because when you tag one another appears, again and again. Originally Posted by majorjones
YUP! This sums it all up! lol
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And I'll add if someone comes on bragging about getting $300 overnight dates, turn the page immediately because that person is full of shit. And if they are bragging that the ate the Hobby GOAT and have only a dozen reviews (some of which are suspect), turn the page again as this person is full of shit
many wise words have been said already. few things I learned overtime.
1. separate hobby vs real life
2. know (think you know) the type of woman that you like (physically and personaility). Your taste will change overtime but enjoy the process
3. the tingly unknown feeling is what made this hobby fun for you
4. no experience is a bad experience unless you make the same mistake over and over again
5. have fun and cherish the memory
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Two real quick things.


If she says she's from Columbia instead of Colombia, move on to the next one.
Check out her pictures, if it shows a sloppy room with an ashtray full of butts, move on.
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Welcome! I hope you have fun!
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  • BLM69
  • 04-04-2023, 05:41 PM
One more thing, get ready for disappointment, especially looking at her posted pics and once you show up she's 10-15 years older, about 40lbs heavier and with a middle school education level.

Just find yourself a regular woman with goals and don't start tricking
I agree, find another hobby, like model trains lol.

There’s a lot of good advice so I’m not going to repeat what else has been said but I have a method that I use to ensure I’m making better decisions while hobbying. Before you send a message to a girl, jerk off to completion. Then ask yourself if you still want to see her. If the answer is yes, reach out to her. You will find that a lot of times the answer will be no.

Also no pussy is worth going into debt, getting arrested, or getting robbed by her “booking agent.” This experience is supposed to relieve the stresses of life, not build them. So if some chick hassles you too much or there’s too much BS, move on.