- Still Looking
- 12-08-2013, 08:34 PM
- Guest101114
- 12-08-2013, 09:27 PM
- Guest032716
- 12-08-2013, 09:41 PM
Maybe Gina can make you a wristband instead!?Right!!! Just like the SC I go to that issues bands to VIP members and I forgot to cut mine off one night, before coming home in drunken stupor! My take is, if you're so paranoid that you can't show your ID to a p411 provider, find another hobby - like bass fishing!
You're awesome GinaXXXOriginally Posted by XOXO Karla
- Guest101114
- 12-08-2013, 10:24 PM
- Whispers
- 12-09-2013, 01:12 AM
13 years if these Web based Forums .
Over 500 reviews....
Probably 700+ actual providers seen
To this day I still do not "screen"
More people talk about it than actually do it.
Do people know who I am? Yes. Of course. Over the years a few have come to know me as someone other than Whispers or ********* on other boards......
If a lady is going to get ripped off or hurt it's going to happen whether she asks for ID or not....
Services like P411 and DateCheck simply sells both sides a false sense of security.... It's the same false sense of security ladies receive working for an Agency they expect to screen the clients for them....
and that's OK because some people NEED that to feel safe....
If you are an active hobbyist none of them are needed.
If guys are going to share a P411 account and all that is needed is a card in their wallet with the same 4 digits as the guy who has the account he is using that can easily be done these days with current technology.
Over 500 reviews....
Probably 700+ actual providers seen
To this day I still do not "screen"
More people talk about it than actually do it.
Do people know who I am? Yes. Of course. Over the years a few have come to know me as someone other than Whispers or ********* on other boards......
If a lady is going to get ripped off or hurt it's going to happen whether she asks for ID or not....
Services like P411 and DateCheck simply sells both sides a false sense of security.... It's the same false sense of security ladies receive working for an Agency they expect to screen the clients for them....
and that's OK because some people NEED that to feel safe....
If you are an active hobbyist none of them are needed.
If guys are going to share a P411 account and all that is needed is a card in their wallet with the same 4 digits as the guy who has the account he is using that can easily be done these days with current technology.
- Joe Buck
- 12-09-2013, 11:10 AM
I would have to say I would be one of the guys who would not be willing to whip out my ID to show anyone in the hobby unless they were willing to do the same. This is one of the reasons I choose to participate in the local M&G's, it gives you a chance to meet up face to face prior to any appointment.
- F117
- 12-09-2013, 11:42 AM
Over the past 3 months or so I've contacted about 8 - 10 P411 listed providers in 3 different cities. I have 4 O.K.s from a pretty diverse group of providers on P411. Guess how many of the providers that I contacted actually looked at my P411 profile on line? One!
I agree that Gina does a great job, and I am thankful for the ladies who promptly gave me O.K.s, but what good is it if providers don't use P411 as one of their screening tools? Do you really want to see a provider that doesn't even click on your P411 profile to see your O.K.s and other providers that you have seen?
I am very particular about who I see due to the usual discretion, disease, etc., concerns. I won't see a provider that doesn't screen the hell out of me!
By the day of the actually appointment, we've usually had several email / PM exchanges if not 2 or 3 phone conversations. I go out of my way to answer any questions the provider may have for me. I volunteer a lot of personal information that I have been told by every provider is unusual, and reassuring from their standpoint. I find that if there is a basic level of trust established up front, then the appointment can go so much ... better!
I tend to see higher level providers - at least two of them felt comfortable enough with me in the screening process to host the incall appointment in their actual homes!
My point is, if you expect a lot, some times you have to give a lot. Trust is trust, and you have to earn it in business, in your personal life, and yes, the "hobby". Let's admit it, both the providers and the hobbyists have a lot of skin in the game, so why not try and help each other out?
The hobby is SOOO different in Montreal and western Europe! As Marlene Dietrich (look her up) said,
"In America, sex is an obsession. In the rest of the world, it's just a fact."
Just my $0.02 - for what it's worth.
I agree that Gina does a great job, and I am thankful for the ladies who promptly gave me O.K.s, but what good is it if providers don't use P411 as one of their screening tools? Do you really want to see a provider that doesn't even click on your P411 profile to see your O.K.s and other providers that you have seen?
I am very particular about who I see due to the usual discretion, disease, etc., concerns. I won't see a provider that doesn't screen the hell out of me!
By the day of the actually appointment, we've usually had several email / PM exchanges if not 2 or 3 phone conversations. I go out of my way to answer any questions the provider may have for me. I volunteer a lot of personal information that I have been told by every provider is unusual, and reassuring from their standpoint. I find that if there is a basic level of trust established up front, then the appointment can go so much ... better!
I tend to see higher level providers - at least two of them felt comfortable enough with me in the screening process to host the incall appointment in their actual homes!
My point is, if you expect a lot, some times you have to give a lot. Trust is trust, and you have to earn it in business, in your personal life, and yes, the "hobby". Let's admit it, both the providers and the hobbyists have a lot of skin in the game, so why not try and help each other out?
The hobby is SOOO different in Montreal and western Europe! As Marlene Dietrich (look her up) said,
"In America, sex is an obsession. In the rest of the world, it's just a fact."
Just my $0.02 - for what it's worth.
- Guest101314
- 12-09-2013, 12:44 PM
Maybe she didn't look because she was just going off of the fact that you have some? When we get an email, it says next to your name how many okays you have. I don't know. I always look to see if you've seen someone that I consider reputable.
- boredinsatx
- 12-09-2013, 03:31 PM
- Guest021214-02
- 12-10-2013, 07:53 AM