Provider - Blackmail

Right over and over

Just read through this thread.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2560572

or this one...

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2553464

All of the arguments from both sides have been covered ad nauseam within the last week or so. Originally Posted by TheOracle

If you don’t want or feel the need to be screened, there are always the highway Ho’s... the street walkers... It’s a risky business on all levels.

Seriously guys. You have got to be fucking kidding me.
" DO NOT GIVE ANY PERSONAL INFO. "

Screening is a vital part of a provider's process. Especially with the way the climate has changed around this industry. You research us correct? You look at our photos, read our reviews, get invited into our homes or incall locations ( which we may spend equal time as our homes) , NOT TO MENTION INTO OUR BODIES. Granted we aren't using our real names.

Let's not even mention the details in ROS reviews. Even though the ROS reviews are not accessible to us.

Yet heaven forbid we have your real names. So we should just give up any safety concerns??? I am not saying that blackmail hasn't happened on either side of the fence, but I would say that picking reputable ladies would significantly minimize this risk.

What do you think we really have to gain from disclosing your info? All your riches??

Why dont YOU UNDERSTAND DISCRETION IS PART OF OUR BUSINESS MODEL. Originally Posted by Ellieinkc

If you don’t want or feel the need to be screened, there are always the highway Ho’s... the street walkers... It’s a risky business on all levels. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

They screen in a more effective way

Haven't heard of a lady threatening blackmail in a long time, not saying it doesn't happen. "Oh I'm pregnant give me x amount or I'll tell your wife"

I would much rather just keep working and have my rep other than fuck it all up for one guy.

I was blackmailed at one point and I went silent for a long time after facing my consequences. I think neither side trust the otherand that's OK but let's skip the bs and get busy

They screen in a more effective way Originally Posted by BLM69

Seeing as the vast majority of murdered providers happen to be of the street walking variety-- I'd have to disagree with you on this one.

I've never given out any true personal information. If a lady wants to meet for lunch and I want to see her, I'll take her to lunch, my treat, full 1 hour donation to see if we click. No sex involved the first meeting so no chance of any legal ramifications. It is legal to pay a girl to go to lunch with you. I never discuss money for sex after that either, but we all know the score.

They like and trust me enough that we play the next meet. They can obviously talk to other providers I have seen.

Seeing as the vast majority of murdered providers happen to be of the street walking variety-- I'd have to disagree with you on this one. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Joke went over your head, they grab your tool asking if you're LE, I flip it and ask to see the kitty

i'm interpreting your post to mean that you cannot believe that guys strongly do not want to give out personal info (thus, the "Seriously guys" part)
(ignore who the info is going to. i'm reading this as generic/stereotypical statement).

and that for some providers, it's some of the info you want in order to feel safer and more comfortable than not having the info (again, generic/stereotypical statement; maybe or maybe not for all prospective clients, but some).

am i interpreting your post correctly??

Seriously guys. You have got to be fucking kidding me.
" DO NOT GIVE ANY PERSONAL INFO. "

Screening is a vital part of a provider's process. Especially with the way the climate has changed around this industry. You research us correct? You look at our photos, read our reviews, get invited into our homes or incall locations ( which we may spend equal time as our homes) , NOT TO MENTION INTO OUR BODIES. Granted we aren't using our real names.

Let's not even mention the details in ROS reviews. Even though the ROS reviews are not accessible to us.

Yet heaven forbid we have your real names. So we should just give up any safety concerns??? I am not saying that blackmail hasn't happened on either side of the fence, but I would say that picking reputable ladies would significantly minimize this risk.

What do you think we really have to gain from disclosing your info? All your riches??

Why dont YOU UNDERSTAND DISCRETION IS PART OF OUR BUSINESS MODEL. Originally Posted by Ellieinkc

LOL, I think a lot of people missed those quotation marks.

i'm interpreting your post to mean that you cannot believe that guys strongly do not want to give out personal info (thus, the "Seriously guys" part)
(ignore who the info is going to. i'm reading this as generic/stereotypical statement).

and that for some providers, it's some of the info you want in order to feel safer and more comfortable than not having the info (again, generic/stereotypical statement; maybe or maybe not for all prospective clients, but some).

am i interpreting your post correctly?? Originally Posted by pmdelites

So many newbs that dont have a clue.
Dude, you should have a hobby phone, email, and name, that have nothing to do with your real life!!
Be very careful. Originally Posted by needingmilking

DITTO.

However, I do say kuddos to this newbie .... because at least he started this thread to LEARN about the subject.

One big piece of advice would be ... DON'T piss off a provider. You never know what may come of it.

When you are seasoned (and that could take many years), you might find those ATF's who you share your personal information. But should always be with caution.


Crazy things happen in this hobby world.
It's all a risk, no matter if your a provider or a john.