I think this started out as a thread about buff, but it is also a about colleen, Scarlet Rae etc... I can't remember all her handles.
Did he cross a line, not sure, we don't know everything that happened to him. He beats his chest loudly to let everyone know he was wronged and you are calling him out for not letting it go.
Her- Proven multiple handles, proven dissever and liar. She's been called out by multiple people for getting angry text, emails, being blackmailed. Her excuse or answer to all this - wasn't me, I am one person, no extra handles.
Month later- I'm sorry, let's move on. Everything is fine, nothing bad will happen again.
Sorry but she still has never owned up to being 4 or more people. She has never owned up for all the lying, poor service, bad tcb. She called out other providers and aired their dirty laundry to try and spotlight off her (of course it could have been one of her multiple personalities or handles she called out, hard to keep track at this point)
You want to say, forget it, might not have been her, she has a kid, lets support her. Problem is she broke the rules, several rules. In life when that happens there are consequences. Pete Rose is still out of baseball for gambling. bottom line is if she can't be trusted she shouldn't be welcomed back or she should at least have to wait longer then 1 month.
Again I say reverse it and tell me how welcome the gentleman would be back and if you would so adamantly fight for him like you are for her and would any providers stand up for him.