My first negative review

I think this whole episode is a clear cut example of why guys are so reluctant to give negative reviews to anyone. Originally Posted by jan-w

I disagree. I think in a strange way this board is a good bullshit filter. True intentions and behaviors tend to mystically transcend the keyboard. Call it intuition or vibes or whatever but when something is off, people can sense it. It fascinates me to no end.

A reviewer's history as well as a provider's history comes into play when weighing the sides of the story. Their reactions as well. The OP handled her side VERY well! If she came on here and was rude, overly defensve or illiterate her rebuttle would not have been well received. But she was practical, grammatically correct and stated the facts from her point of view in a sincere way.

Just because she made a good case for herself doesn't mean the review system is flawed IMO. Its a good lesson for other ladies actually. If you disagree with a no review, this is the way to handle yourself.

Most of the time, no reviews stand and the lady's brand takes a nose dive if she attempts a rebuttle.

WulfPrincess, take note!

WulfPrincess, take note! Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

HAhaha I think she will make lamb sauce with this, SweaterPuppies, you are in for some verbal fisticuffs

Welcome to the world of serving the public. Thank goodness you don't have to deal with Yelp, Angie's List and the other "consumer" boards. You now see what restaurants, retailers and professionals face every day. The bottom line is that if 25 people like you and one doesn't, odds are that you're doing things right. The fact that you care so much makes me want to see you.

I always assume that a provider will be able to read my reviews in full, either due to a WK sharing, or her having a PA account under a different name or some doofus putting ROS stuff in a reply comment.

Sure enough, a recent visit wherein I gave a "Yes" but in ROS mentioned some breath issues, was followed by an email from the girl. She was polite and wanted to know why I didn't enjoy myself. I corrected her and informed her that I did in fact enjoy myself and gave her a "Yes".

Don't let it get to you too much. If you find out why he negged you, then you can use the feedback for future reference.

Alaine posted in a related that in order to receive a p411 okay gents must now send a request for okay through p411. That somehow slipped by my attention sometime in September. I went back today and saw the notification on the front page. Unfortunately, my p411 bookmark places me beyond that page. I am glad to get that info.

This is correct....,you must now request a P411 ok for a lady to give it. Kinda silly, but rules are rules. Been that way for awhile now!

Christina NCNS'ed me 3-4 weeks ago for a pre-arranged appt., but felt so bad after she realized it that she's offered a make up session. With the distance, my erratic work schedule, and the F'ing ice storm, we have yet to connect, at no fault of hers. But I truly believe that she tries to keep her reputation spotless and it's important to her.

And yes Christina, I can't wait to cum be your guest.

This is correct....,you must now request a P411 ok for a lady to give it. Kinda silly, but rules are rules. Been that way for awhile now!

Christina NCNS'ed me 3-4 weeks ago for a pre-arranged appt., but felt so bad after she realized it that she's offered a make up session. With the distance, my erratic work schedule, and the F'ing ice storm, we have yet to connect, at no fault of hers. But I truly believe that she tries to keep her reputation spotless and it's important to her.

And yes Christina, I can't wait to cum be your guest. Originally Posted by TrailBlazer

It's true. As much as I hate to admit it, it is. I got busy, lost track of some things and ultimately mixed up my schedule. I never claimed to be perfect and I hope this will be an example of my willingness to accept responsibility for a mistake. The moment I realized what I'd done I immediately contacted him and begged for a make up date which I intend to be donation free. Now this isn't a claim that everything is ok, simply that I honestly try my best and if in doing that I still fall short; I will make it up to you and then some.

I'm not just a provider, I'm a person and I screw up just like anybody. I do my best to handle it with dignity and humility in hopes that I can set things right with those offended. If that can't be done, I'm left with tremendous guilt and it's because I really just care about people, including all of you here on eccie. You're all people, just like me and I do my best to understand that and only hope it will be returned. I take my title very serious and I seek to do exactly as it implies, to provide something that will help a man feel whole again.

...And TB honey, you just get in touch with me! We're going to have a great time this week!


Thanks again to all the positive feed-backers,

Donation free ohhhhh holy snap, Christina you didn't give me milk with my cookies, how you going to make that up for me given how often I have seen you and been without my share
Of the milk Hahahaha

I am only joking but I would love milk with my session just think of the possibilities but Christina you know you are the best because I normally don't do incall but I be at you place even in the snow hahaha I love her cookie
Hahaha

Christina is the best stress reliever out there and she knows it.

Sigh... :-/

Sigh... :-/ Originally Posted by BigOldZero

Hahahaha I knew you would say something haha yes I said it, I love her cookie both of which are edible

That's not it. It's just a personal issue.

Congratulations on the cookies.

Lol you sound like a guy that took a girl out an ok expensive dinner date followed by drinks and making out only to never hear from the girl again. Lmao

6+ year old thread - guess I'm missing something.

WTF... why bring this up after so many years? some people...

Pretty funny I didn’t realize the date at first but just shook my head when I saw it.