The great thing about this site is that once you've seen a few ladies your screening process is pretty simple and most do not ask for personal info if they know your handle and contact who you've seen.I had a provider ask me for too much personal information. I asked for the same in return and she laughed at me and said "That's not how this works Honey. I need to verify you and not the other way around". As much as I would have liked to spend some quality time with this provider, I said F that and moved on. I understand there are risks to this 'Hobby', but there are risks on both sides. Maybe for the members who are single, retired, or just financially stable, this isn't that big of an issue. For us members that have a definite need for discretion, this can become a serious issue. Family, job, whatever, etc. And as much as I may want or feel the need to see a certain provider, nothing will trump those things.
I don't like getting asked for my work phone number, yes someone on this site wont see me unless I gave them that, I did not give it to them so I move on.
Everyone has to make their choices and I get the married guys big concern as they are playing a game they have more to lose then us single guys do when it comes to the personal info being given out.
Be safe, have fun and choose wisely.
On we go Originally Posted by bjwstw
With all of the questions surrounding sites like this, or P411 and Date Check, and LE using 'Meet and Greets' to set up stings, what's a hobbyist to do? What do you providers out there recommend we do? As with most guys here, I'm open to fair, well thought out options within reason. I just don't think I should be required to give you everything up to and including a recent credit check.