Damn you Eccie girls!

You just haven't found the right person yet or haven't matured into yourself. Once you do find that partner, keep it alive by communicating your needs and listening to hers. She's out there.

When I get lonely, I have friends; when I get horny, I have the hobby; no muss, no fuss! It's turning out to be a pretty nice way of life. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Yeppers, that is the likely solution. That's what I did for the last 10 years while married, and it worked exceptionally well.

She's out there. Originally Posted by Camille Fox

..... and probably on Eccie!

..... and probably on Eccie! Originally Posted by ktrouble22

Also bringing up another point....what if one did find someone through the hobby?

I've often contemplated this, having met some fine gents here and there through this little community, that I felt I had more of a connection with, outside of purely client to provider relationship.

I've wondered if both felt strongly enough, would they give it all up to be together? And furthermore, could both each trust each other enough to believe each had really given it up?

These questions are too deep for me, lols, so I chalk it up to an unlikely fantasy and stay content with the lifestyle I've created for myself, lols.

As I said, friends for loneliness, hobby for horniness.

I think that is why 50 shades of Grey was so popular.

I think that is why 50 shades of Grey was so popular. Originally Posted by Slitlikr

Women in denial of their own sexual desires finally having a "socially acceptable" outlet for said desires....yup!

Love that movie

I think that is why 50 shades of Grey was so popular. Originally Posted by Slitlikr

You have to seek out the bat shit crazy ones.....

.....same with the hookers.


Edit: I'll bet the ladies have similar thoughts as the op. Apples apples, I'm willing to bet the average eccie guy can out fuck the average civi guy. apples/apples on age/looks/fitness etc. Or, statistically score civi vs eccie,...I'm sure the eccie curve is skewed in the more favorable direction.

With providers, it is easier to ask for what you want, or at least seek out what you want beforehand. In the real world, it is a little tougher because you are afraid of offending. . .she isn't being paid to be there so you think you run the risk of running her off.

However, I have yet to meet a woman that doesn't want to please her man in bed. If you know what you want. . .just ask. If you are into some really kinky shit, you might want to ease into it over time, but people like to learn what you like and if you offer guidance or suggestions, most will take it well. If you ask for something and the girl gets offended for any reason, then you met someone who is unlikely to make an effort to be sexually compatible and you dodged a bullet by finding out early.

As I said, friends for loneliness, hobby for horniness. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I am getting the vibe VH is horny

I am getting the vibe VH is horny Originally Posted by notanewbie

or her rent is past due.

..... and probably on Eccie! Originally Posted by ktrouble22

LO-FUCKING-L!!! Let us know how THAT works out for ya!

Girl who is not into you = bad in sack
Girl who is into you = good in sack
Girl who thinks you don't give a shit about her but she likes you = will blow your fucking mind sex

I posted a while back about dating civilians. Well I have done so. Trouble is, sex with the civilians has been ruined by you ladies on this board. I've had too much great sex around here. Where on earth do I find a lady who can do it as well as my Eccie ladies? Dammit. I'm gonna have to marry my hooker. Originally Posted by ktrouble22

Sex can be interesting and fun with hookers, but a "civilian" chick who is GENUINELY into you will always be better in my opinion. The IOP these providers give you is nice, but it's fake obviously, and there's a rubber involved (gotta "play" safe) so it'll never be as good as being with a woman that really wants you and you know well enough to go "uncovered" with.

FYI - The vast majority (OK...all of them) of hookers only care about your money, not you. GASP! I know, it's shocking. Make the mistake of thinking otherwise and 1.) you're clueless (they are HOOKERS! Look up what that means) and 2.) prepare to get a "reality check" as soon as you think otherwise.

Be "respectful", have fun, but don't be a freakin' idiot.

I am getting the vibe VH is horny Originally Posted by notanewbie

Heh.