No complaints...just curious. Nobody likes a BBW anymore????

Every woman is beautiful in her own way, we all have different traits, when a woman makes love to a man in bed and puts the passion into the session no one is going to complain....Personally I like eating the cookie if it is clean on any woman....

Being a BBW is way easier than being a "tweener".

I am too small to market as a BBW, but too large to market myself as "fit". It is a hell of a hard place to be, sometimes... because you don't readily fit into the typical fantasy of either side.

So for me, it has always been about my personality and intellect. Everyone has to play to their strength, no matter what it may be.

Being a BBW is way easier than being a "tweener".

I am too small to market as a BBW, but too large to market myself as "fit". It is a hell of a hard place to be, sometimes... because you don't readily fit into the typical fantasy of either side.

So for me, it has always been about my personality and intellect. Everyone has to play to their strength, no matter what it may be. Originally Posted by GracePreston

Said with grace , Ms. Preston!

When things get slow, we tend to pick at a physical attribute , pit it as a negative attribute, and figure it as the cause of lack of business. All that needs to be done is diversification, and magnification of a great attribute that makes one stand out.

I hate to compare providers to food, but they're both yummy and pleasurable: Theres Fast Food. Then there's the specifics like burger joints and sandwich shops. When someone selects Baker Bros over a Subway, there's a solid difference between the two and likely why Baker Bros is chosen. Price isn't necessarily the deciding factor being they are relatively the same price per person. It's the quality (goods) from Baker Bros that decides for me.

Just a way to view this...

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies
I say
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my step
The curl of my lips
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.

Maya Angelou

R.I.P

5-28-2014

Those are words to live by no matter your size. Set your own standards. Don't let a man set them for you.

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies
I say
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my step
The curl of my lips
I'm a woman
Phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That's me.

Maya Angelou

R.I.P

5-28-2014

Those are words to live by no matter your size. Set your own standards. Don't let a man set them for you. Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Nice.

Building on what Grace and Eva said...I prefer being the milf "niche". Not a spinner not a bbw. The guys like what they like - and depending on the day ot could be anything. Marketing your "brand" is what will set you apart. It's good to step back and assess the situation at times and it looks like that is exactly what you are doing Curves. Kudos to you for a genuine inquiry about how to better yourself.

..and kudos to the posters for not bashing a lady who appears to be genuinely in search of feedback to better her business.

With all respect to all, I am not motivated. Been divorced three times because I am not motivated.

My ATF BBW serves fried chicken during each session.

Being a BBW is way easier than being a "tweener".

I am too small to market as a BBW, but too large to market myself as "fit". It is a hell of a hard place to be, sometimes... because you don't readily fit into the typical fantasy of either side.

So for me, it has always been about my personality and intellect. Everyone has to play to their strength, no matter what it may be. Originally Posted by GracePreston

Well said!! There is a market for everything & everyone these days! So I say,"Just rock who you are"!!!

It ain't easy being green....I mean BBW.

However there is fun that can only be had with large breasts that the spinners can't do. lol

Wish I had more to say, but I haven't finished booting up yet. Coffee

I actually prefer BBW over spinners, but you have to be hwp. My wife weighs 100 lbs and very fit, but my first sexual experience was with a BBW and was out of this world amazing! Ironically, imo, it's hard for me to find BBW providers where I live so I am always trying to make trips to Dallas.

I totally agree with what was said about a glutted market. Several of my fav spinner providers have said they started traveling more because Dallas has so many providers. And these are early twenty-something's with cheerleader bodies that you can only dream of (sigh). I personally see hot and sexy as relative and as someone else stated I go by pics when shopping. If a provider has crappy pics or tries to hide their body, I skip over them. Where as when a BBW struts what she got that catches my eye. Pretty and elegant shots that show off your assets and your boobsets. Like many on here I've seen a variety of providers in terms of age and body type. So I don't think it's hatin on bbws just that there's so many options there are only a handful of providers I've seen multiple times. Great for hobbyist not so much for providers. Which I'm know sucks.

I have not done as much research into what makes escorts stand-out from the crowd as cam girls...but I know from that arena it ain't the body style...

It has a lot more to do with attitude, positioning yourself, and marketing, than it has to do with having the best body.

I've watched girls who I consider very ordinary out produce girls who are amazing looking by a 5 to 1 ratio, just due to attitude, personality, and be willing to market instead of just relying on one or two traffic sources.

Make a guy feel special with your smile, laughter, and personality...and he's yours...

I love what Katrina said...that is the perfect attitude.

Cheyenne, with that cute face and luscious look, you could leave a lot of those "little ladies" in the dust.

You are that luscious, curvy, delectable treat many men want...

Plus, you have to treat this like a business. I know that is tough for some ladies to do. But it's a business.

Sincerely,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

And that is a brilliant statement! It is a marketing and personal services business.

I'm a BBW and seems as though no one is into "us" anymore. Just curious. Wonder what is going through the men's minds


Would love to hear some input. Originally Posted by curvesNmore

With a smile an face like yours I would pull the trigger in a second !

Awwww thank you Alfred!!!!!