Scripted Session??

To your question Bliss:

Sometimes guys have an act or role playing scenario wrapped in their head of how they want things to go down in order to fulfill a certain fantasy. It could be a reenactment from a porn scene or a combination of turn-on's/desires that he believes if done in a certain sequence would maximize his satisfaction. So I don't feel that a request for a somewhat scripted session is uncommon; as long as he understands that you are a "go with the flow" kinda lady, he is willing to accommodate your natural flow, and you understand the higher level objectives he desires. The fact that he has laid out the various activities with precision timing IS quite uncommon, and not in kind to your nature. I don't feel his timing scenario is or will become a trend. Originally Posted by blinkq45

Very well said.

This kind of scenario would make me feel like there's too much pressure and thought put into every action and the timing each activity would take. I would also be nervous if I went over on like 2 minutes of one activity the client wouldn't be satisfied. Wayyyy too complicated IMO. Im more of a go-with-the-flow kind of girl.

While this is just my opinion I believe engineers think WAY differently than normal folks. Everything has to be by the numbers with no variations. I've encountered many engineers in my time and at least half have that specific trait. It's fun to watch their behavior in social situations. My ex wife's new husband is an engineer and I love watching him stick his foot in his mouth socially over and over again. Hell, my brother is an engineer. I can just picture him standing in the rain, soaking wet, looking towards the sky with a look of sheer disbelief on his face because the forecast called for partly cloudy.

With that in mind you should give the guy a try. Even engineers need lovin! Originally Posted by johnclark

The other half are accountants. All of them. Every item has to be listed.

A script that comes out totally natural is the key. It covers the flow in the most optimum manner, touches all the points and gets best return on investment. It is how porn movies are made. Imagine if all they did was place a camera and told the two to have sex.