I know some of those hot $250/hr ladies who are UTR, never post on Coed, and provide top-notch service to their regulars. They mostly see only long-term hobbyists who have been on eccie for some time and those who do not bash others on line.
You reap what you sow.
Originally Posted by BugleBoy
"You reap what you sow"...and what would that be exactly?
Ah yes, the old special brand of "Chauvinist Lite" "Good Providers are Seen not Heard" as promulgated by BB and Mr. Wind rears its porcine face yet again.
Strangely I converse on the daily with a lot of these very same providers you likely have in mind. Sometimes they don't post because English is their second or third language and though brilliant in their own language, they do not feel comfortable positing an opinion here. Some, though they are indeed very successful in the cock for cash trade have found themselves tied to an extravagant lifestyle and debt or family or other financial obligations that forces them to see such sexist mongers they would not wish to see otherwise and keep quite for fear of losing said mongers as clients. Sometime it is explained they are simply browbeat by the years of dealing with such attitudes, sometimes they fear for their actual lives, as women who dare defy a weak man's ego often are. And not without reason. I can give you a frightening number of personal examples.
But I can tell you it is a very rare woman who is "just about her business" and doesn't care about what happens on this board or other boards in the attitudes toward women and sex workers in general. The indifference you imply is masked by they circumstances above and many others too innumerable to list, but not simply because YOU WANT to believe they're somehow "above" it. I can assure you for the most part that's not the case. It would be the rare woman who's stomach does not turn in revulsion for how her sisters are treated here. To think otherwise is assume an apathy in these women that is the opposite of the flattery you think you're bestowing by saying "they're above it". They're not. We're not sociopaths, we're women, we care. Y'all make their heart ache.
Now, this all is expected of Whispy and SL and other provocateurs. They post to get a rise out of people and do so with amazing and awesome efficacy. But you and Wind, well frankly, I somehow think this is beneath you, beneath the asset of your capable minds.
But what should I know, I'm not supposed to be smart enough to think of such things,
I certainly shouldn't have the chutzpah to say I'm smart, and I couldn't possibly be a successful woman and provider and post here as often as I do according to this incredibly spurious and intellectually dishonest logic.
It's pretty easy to succeed here. You just need to be willing to suck dick. Once that's understood the rest is gravy.
