Perhaps it's time to take an online class that teaches you not only how to screen but also qualify the man.
There are also classes on time management that would be very helpful to you as well.
Customer service classes highly suggested.
Us dudes are sick and tired of the whining so you need to stop.
Originally Posted by Treetop78759
While we are on the topic of Continuing Education, might I suggest that some people might benefit from a class on persuasive writing, or something to help learn the concept of “it is not what you say, but how you say it.”
That said, now that you changed your profile pic, I will respond. TT, you have some valid points, overall. I’m not a hypocrite, so I will admit to giving some of the same advice, hopefully in a kindler and gentler way. But similar, all the same. I’ll readily admit that.
I prefer to work hard to attract the guys I want and very rarely encounter any fuckery. If I get a random weirdo, I ignore. It really doesn’t bother me at all. Sort of like the #3 guys, I simply move on.
Some of your advice, TT, is anti safety. With that I disagree. If you think that there aren’t girls (like BLove) who haven’t stopped a bad situation from occurring from being smart and prudent, then you are not being realistic. It happens. Ladies are targets for bad guys and they need to be vigilant.
Every lady needs to do what she feels necessary to feel safe, which leads to her comfort and the guy’s related enjoyment. Where I again agree with you is that some ladies’ methods make little to no sense to me and I don’t see the nexus with safety. If they ask, the rest of us try to give solid advice, but ultimately, it is up to them to decide what to do, whether to bitch about it, and how to proceed. It’s up to the guy to agree or politely move on.