Middle aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

George was/is very facially attractive. So not only are middle aged men sought after by older women, but also younger ones and girls (daddy issues or not). I would have a self-inflated ego if I were a man in my 40's too!
Originally Posted by Joie Estelle

oh please he is for me too, he is great looking guy. i like men in their 40ies. have always liked them and always will even though i am getting older.
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Never underestimate the Power of Fur & Fangs! M. Edward and The Squirrel are all powerful...... Originally Posted by topguntex
Word!
I just think men get more confident in themselves because they have achieved more once they hit 40.
I just think men get more confident in themselves because they have achieved more once they hit 40. Originally Posted by incognito isis
Maybe true for some men. Some of us are underachievers and f*ckups.
Maybe true for some men. Some of us are underachievers and f*ckups. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
i'm sure that doesn't apply to u
Maybe true for some men. Some are underachievers and f*ckups. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
I needed to fix that for you Charles. This is the new D&T. Out with the negativity and in with the positive.


I have Becky's permission to jump on her trampoline.
I needed to fix that for you Charles. This is the new D&T. Out with the negativity and in with the positive.


I have Becky's permission to jump on her trampoline. Originally Posted by Ansley
TY. And in honor of Becky, I say, "wag more, bark less."
I just think men get more confident in themselves because they have achieved more once they hit 40. Originally Posted by incognito isis
Maybe true for some men. Some of us are underachievers and f*ckups. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Well apart from the f*ckups, I am more attracted to middle aged men than any other age. All of my serious relationships are usually with blokes at least 10 years older than I. And sexually speaking, I find guys in their late 30's -40's to be the best lovers
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I don't think any sane middle aged man. Or older man, has any "Hotness delusion."
.......OK there probably are. Sux man. It just does.
However. We are not dead yet. And we have money god dammit.
Never underestimate the Power of Fur & Fangs! M. Edward and The Squirrel are all powerful...... Originally Posted by topguntex
I miss our Edward and his friend Becky.
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I see this happen all the time! Its so stupid
A good male friend of mine who is 43 thinks he is really hot and wants to go clubbing
all the time! Umm no.
He is kinda cute but I remember when I was in my 20's and seeing the creepy "old dudes" sitting at the bar in the club... ewww Im not going to be part of that

He does like to date women his own age but please, I dont want to go dancing - over 40 grinding on the dance floor...no one wants to see that. good looking or not
I dont want to go dancing - over 40 grinding on the dance floor...no one wants to see that. good looking or not Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS
Don't hang up your dancing shoes yet. In Atlanta there is a club called Johnny's Hideaway, that has been packing them in seven days a week for 32 years. I would imagine the average age is 50. Even the mature crowd still likes to go out dancing every now and then.
I see this happen all the time! Its so stupid. A good male friend of mine who is 43 thinks he is really hot and wants to go clubbing all the time! Umm no. He is kinda cute but I remember when I was in my 20's and seeing the creepy "old dudes" sitting at the bar in the club... ewww Im not going to be part of that Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS
But if Clooney came up to you and said "let's dance" you'd be okay with that? Maybe even grind with him?
Don't hang up your dancing shoes yet. In Atlanta there is a club called Johnny's Hideaway, that has been packing them in seven days a week for 32 years. I would imagine the average age is 50. Even the mature crowd still likes to go out dancing every now and then. Originally Posted by Ansley
There use to be a couple of clubs here in Houston many years ago, that were for the 35 and up crowd. I want to say one of the clubs was called Studebakers? These clubs were just as packed as the clubs for the barely 20 something kids.
I want to say one of the clubs was called Studebakers? Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures
Well there's a trip down memory lane. We had a Studebakers here too. Did the wait staff jump on the bar and dance?