Having known of several thousands of ladies' handles over my many years in the hobby, and having "known" many of those both in person and bcd, my humble conclusion is that...
...provider handles with few exceptions usually do not truly refect their
-- personality,
-- iop skills or,
-- the quality (or lack) of tcb, bcd or "repeatability"
but of course all of the above is only imo.
That said, while a handle may catch many a gent's attention, what gets my attention is the quality of the ad, announcement or word of mouth from in-person reports, further postings, and the availability and accuracy of photography and wording.
Personally, many handles (female and male!) can sometimes just turn me off.
And only after we meet in person at a community event would I consider changing my initial thinking.