I like the standard rule- SHE must weigh ‘less than me’.
However- a friendly observation over the course of my 6 decades- the best weight loss program ever invented has always been ‘divorce’. Never seen a woman gain weight after divorce. (Only after marriage)
Saw my ex in court and thought ‘Day-um! It works every time!’ She lost 30 pounds. That’s what happens when she gets her ass off my couch and off my dime. She learns to live on her budget. Quit breaking me with massive CC bills every month.
I now spend her CC money on ECCIE ladies. Better investment! At least I get something out of it.