It didn't used to be this Hard

I have been guilty of not replying in the past. I will say (even though no excuse) some times our inbox's get a little out of control. I am sure I have passed over many pm's, emails or texts on accident either because my box gets slammed all the sudden or for whatever unintentional reason. I don't think you guys should HAVE to do this but, I would suggest at least trying to contact a provider twice. I have had several dates be very successful and didn't see the first attempt of contact on total accident. I will agree about the age thing though. I know for me personally I did not start acting "professional" in the hobby until a couple of years ago. I still miss stuff time to time though.

I missed a TON of p411 requests due to gmail moving them to a different folder recently.

The last couple of weeks I have been under the weather and had company in from out of town. When I finally could get to my inbox's I am sure I missed a few things because they were completely over flowing.

These are no excuse at all just wanted to give a little insight from our side of it.....well some of us lol. I can't speak for all.

I am VERY glad you posted this thread it has been on my mind lately and I have felt bad for missing some things.

Some of my good friends know this about me and they will contact me all ways if I do not respond to one. I appreciate that. I have also had gents apologize for "bugging" me...NO not bugging at all. Like I said I may need the reminder nudge time to time.

Hope that helps

Happy Friday! Have a good day everyone!
Candi Staxx's Avatar
So, you were what back then,.... 5'5"??

(Sorry, Candi, couldn't resist )

On topic, Candi is one of the exceptions to PDid's rule. I suggest he find out for himself!! Originally Posted by Netx9

LOL Your horrible

I hope he does
Thats crazy/odd that any man should go to that much trouble...
Candi Staxx's Avatar
I was going to say sometimes things do get overlooked also, that does happen every once in a while.

I think Bailey's statement perfectly summed it up though!
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Well then, all is forgiven and perhaps another time. Appreciate your honest response as opposed to being ignored once again. While there are more of us clients, than providers, that shouldn't excuse bad manners. That said there are some of us who should be ignored, just hope its not ME! I recognize that being a provider attracts a lot of undesired attention. Just wish that was focused on Me


I have been guilty of not replying in the past. I will say (even though no excuse) some times our inbox's get a little out of control. I am sure I have passed over many pm's, emails or texts on accident either because my box gets slammed all the sudden or for whatever unintentional reason. I don't think you guys should HAVE to do this but, I would suggest at least trying to contact a provider twice. I have had several dates be very successful and didn't see the first attempt of contact on total accident. I will agree about the age thing though. I know for me personally I did not start acting "professional" in the hobby until a couple of years ago. I still miss stuff time to time though.

I missed a TON of p411 requests due to gmail moving them to a different folder recently.

The last couple of weeks I have been under the weather and had company in from out of town. When I finally could get to my inbox's I am sure I missed a few things because they were completely over flowing.

These are no excuse at all just wanted to give a little insight from our side of it.....well some of us lol. I can't speak for all.

I am VERY glad you posted this thread it has been on my mind lately and I have felt bad for missing some things.

Some of my good friends know this about me and they will contact me all ways if I do not respond to one. I appreciate that. I have also had gents apologize for "bugging" me...NO not bugging at all. Like I said I may need the reminder nudge time to time.

Hope that helps

Happy Friday! Have a good day everyone! Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey