Of course I want to be with someone who cares for herself and feels comfortable and confident. If that means that a woman feels she has to be manicured a quaffed frequently . . .well OK.
However, a less formal presentsation is also attractive to me.
If the location is to be a hotel in Houston's Galleria, I ask that she dress to blend into the crowd milling artound in the mall. If the location's logo ends in a numeral or the word "Inn" I suggest that she dress in what would be inconspicuous if she were to buy a cold drink in a local convenience store.
Either scenario: Stylish, but not obvious or conspicuous.
Whatever . . .any strong scent is not desired.