Since the other thread was closed without explanation.
Alyssa seemed to be a new member in good standing with some positive reviews however her self destructive tendencies were pretty obvious.
You must've missed the "I'm quitting" post by Alyssa where several members, Ladies and Gents alike, encouraged her to stay and seek advice from those more experienced in screening. Some of the ladies offered to personally mentor her.
Newcomers are not doomed however, they would be well advised to establish themselves as members wanting betterment for the hobby in general and to promote access to pussy. Which have you done?
Once you gain that respect then the board will accept some shenanigans.
It's so funny when a newbie comes along and immediately wants to be part of the family then they start shit and cry foul.
Most of us who have been around a while have in one way or another put ourselves in the line of fire, so to speak, based on the trust we have in those whom we only know as a persona on a shmb. That's a very slippery slope we choose to navigate but once we do and come out clean on the other side we gain appreciation for the wisdom and experience of those that have hobbied before us. We also get protective. We have learned who to trust and who to be suspicious of.
Yes, on the boards we have secret handshakes and code words and inside jokes. They make us feel safe in a way and comfortable with each other. They remind us of our shared history both good and bad.
When someone comes along and tries to be an immediate insider it, quite frankly, makes us uncomfortable and our instincts to protect our brothers and sisters kick in.
Then one of the most protective of us gets banned for sticking up for herself and defending the allegations made against her and you with your admitted multiple handles are allowed to stay, stir shit and continue to criticize our unwritten code of shmb etiquette that makes us comfortable.. That just breeds more suspicion. So just what are your motives?
Originally Posted by boardman
Let's not get emotional. I for one am in Brooke's corner. But, what they both did was a clear violation of the rules and warnings did not stop what they both were doing. so they were banned for a month.
Posting in Open forum, ladies forum content and PM content is against the rules.....And I don't care how sentimental someone feels about the person.....No one is above the rules..........
Brooke allowed alyssa to bring her there and she shouldn't have.
Also, this Miss Lana was banned for using multiple names and log ons. THink that was someone associated with Alyssa as well. I closed those other threads because it was enough of that ,as if people are not reading those the threads and why they were banned
I posted a thread called Warnings in Co Ed and I think some with questions need to read it.........things have been laxed around here.........