OK - Sex with SO or Sex with Provider?

I agree with everything Lana and TNT said. Those are two smart women. Originally Posted by sanddog

Are you sure you didn't mean, "smart ass" women? LOL!

Like Angie said, we try sooooo hard!

Uhhhh...not sure I understand...need clarification! You text her, email, maybe see her socially...a possible one stand with someone you just met MAY lead to BCD...with a Provider it definitely WILL lead to BCD.
Am I making sense? Originally Posted by Prolongus

No. I always scheduled at least 2 hours, so at least the first 30 minutes I was there, it was about chit-chatting and getting comfortable. Figure that into the time texting and calling. I can't recall ever having a session with someone who wasn't at ease by the time bcd activities rolled around. I've had sex with a few civillian women I've known for 30 minutes (not texting, emails or phone calls, of course.) It was still different. The connection just wasn't there with providers. Too mechanical for me and I don't really believe it is just a provider being more nervous than a civillian. Except for 1 or 2 times, I always made 2-3 visits to the same provider hoping it would get less mechanical, before trying someone else. So, no. You aren't making sense, to me anyway.

I hit on my wife...and whadda ya know....SHE'S WANTING IT. She wants ME.
Not my money.
Not my reviews.
Not to get me off as fast as she can so she can get me out the door to accept the next pay check.... Originally Posted by tntangie

QFT +1