Gents here is your chance, ladies pay attention

I am really enjoying this thread.


Very nice, direct and CIVIL!

Thank you.


KKA

OK, I normally have an elevated anxiety level leading up to a session. Personal prep, session prep, being on time. Please do not add to it by being extra late. Drop a call or text with current ETA.

Don't be afraid of taking the lead. A little back and forth is wonderful. It doesn't make you a dom. Besides, I just love it when my partner says, "I want to try something..." or especially "I want you NOW!"

The best attitude is: Sex is Fun!

I realize that many providers and hobbyists aren't going to have that chemical attraction, and they possibly just won't click.

However, while I can't speak for the rest of the guys, I can tell you that if a provider puts on a show as to convince me that she's really into me, then I'm sold. I'll come back as much as monetarily possible. Ladies that bring their A-game when it comes to GFE will always have me as a repeat customer. This includes subtle flirtatious devices such as genuine compliments, light kisses, cuddling, and of course short but rather long gazes into each others eyes. Sometimes you just gotta make some love.

Penis, dick, cock, willie, pee pee.....I don't care what you call it, it's all yours to play with ladies.


Also, it's refreshing to see providers update their pictures. I'd much rather see what you look like NOW, rather what you looked like a year ago.

7. You don't have to be bi, or talk about being bi if you aren't. Being bi doesn't bother me, but it isn't a turn on for me either so just be yourself. A lot of the stereo types of what guys want aren't true for every guy.

8. Lingerie doesn't do much for me so don't feel like you have to spend a few hundred dollars at Fredericks or Victorias. I like bikinis and tight, low-cut, clubbing type clothes.

So many of you seem to like something different. I would love it if a guy would just saw btw... can you dress in lingerie or I don't like lingerie can you wear jeans and a tight top. Pornstar look or more natural. Would it be cool if we did?? It doesn't hurt to ask for something. Except for haggling, imo. But, if I have a client I have an established relationship with I think its okay to say hey I only have x amount can we work something out? The worst someone can say is no! I like this thread. Keep it coming! I'm guilty of the wet hair thing sometimes but I keep my make up on. This is helpful.

A hot/warm incall is never fun unless it's snowing outside.

I don't mind talking for a bit when I arrive. I've seen providers that count this time and some that don't. If this is part of our fun time lets get to the fun...

Please gents, WITHOUT NAMING THE LADY SO NO DRAMA what is it that one thing on a review will stop you from calling that lady? Originally Posted by Dagny D.E.W.

Howdy, Folks!


Uh...I could name a thing(or 4) on a review that will stop me from calling a lady, but...


If I were to list it/them here, I *KNOW* the drama, HatePosts, and cyber-attacks would be slung fast and furious.


Good luck on this thread.

A lot of this sounds like common sense when it comes to personal hygiene and ambiance of the play space. When it comes to fantasies, the ladies definitely love the foreplay of naughty emails before a session to make your fantasy "ours." We love to please and be pleased and we are pretty intuitive (speaking for the ladies I've played with) but we aren't mind readers. We are also very amorous and enjoy new experiences too.

Thanks for the ideas and input. There would be no "us" without "y'all."

I love it when gents aren't afraid to be direct during a session as to likes and dislikes. If the bj is OK but more suction would make it better, let us know. If the hoover mouth is turned on high and you'd rather have something softer, let us know. If you want light fingernails down your back, ask for it. Faster, slower, harder, softer, deeper, wetter, just ask! Don't be afraid. Our feelings won't get hurt if you give us direction. This is especially helpful during doubles. Oddly many gents seem more tongue tied during a double than in a solo, afraid to ask for anything, not knowing how to take charge when two women are involved. But we KNOW you've been fantasizing about it so you must have SOME idea of what you want.... just say it. We won't bite! Unless you want us too....

I've slipped on that banana before lol. Next time I will remember to say how hard..

I had a client that took almost 4 months for him to tell me that he had some fetishes. I thought to myself, hmm. If you can't tell your provider what you want....who can you tell! All he had to do was speak up and now he is extremely satisfied with our fetish sessions. Trust me, whatever it is you want, I'm sure we have heard it before!

9. If you're going to offer a shower at you incall please stock it with unscented or masculine scented body wash. It really sucks to get in shower and have:

A. No soap at all.
B. Female scented soap.
C. A nasty bar of soap covered in pubic hair (the worst.)

A penis is something in a text book. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

That sounds painful.

This is a great thread! Thanks Dagney!

Just happened with a regular of mine.... If I have requested an hour and paid for an hour, don't just leave after the first pop at 30 minutes. If I wanted a thirty minute session, I would have asked for that (and saved a lot of $$).