Should providers be allowed to post in co-ed?

LL has it right..take off all the trailers that come after the comment, for everyone!! no pics, no numbers...then maybe we can stay on topic w/o all the threADS..and +1 should be automatically rejected! Originally Posted by ZR1-Man

+1.

This was a fairly heavily debated topic when ASPD first formed in December of 1999 and January of 2000. Arguments were made both ways. I was in the let them post camp, and still am. I think it enriches the community quite a bit to have the point of view from both sides of the hobby.

The opposing viewpoint was that there would be more honest discussion without providers. I don't think that is true. They will lurk, or have their white knights (a term not then invented) report to them no matter what the policy on the board. If you don't have the guts to post honestly to their face, I can't imagine you'll have the guts to do it behind their back when you know that they're getting the word shortly by other means.

The system has worked well in the past and, IMHO, continues to work well.

Thanks to the same group of ladies, co-ed is not provider friendly. Well sorta. Have you noticed a shortage of real active female participation in co-ed lately? I was never really with the men who believe providers should just post ads and go on about their business, but wow, did those gents have a point?

Your thoughts..... Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Who is the same group of ladies you are thanking for ruining your coed posting experience? Name them so we can start some more drama.

If the ladies leave, I will not be the one to wear the dress.

As for the idiots...ignore...ignore...ign ore

Both genders have their fare share of idiots.

Post away ladies. If a thread does not interest me I simply do not read it. The ladies need to post, its a good way for the fucktards to get a read on the ladies' attitudes. Attitude does count.

I will trade you my sig line for a very entertaining sig line under yours..........Deal

Some ladies do the right think, all I have is my p411 link..but as of tomorrow it will gone. Just to experiment.

Compromise?

Escorts posting in the co-ed is fine but make them ALL turn off their sig lines and maybe they'll come up with more interesting posts?

Some sig lines are huge and if you turn it off, the potential clients may need to work the mouse a few extra clicks but they can find the contact info if they want. Originally Posted by LazurusLong

I have several suits of pink armor just waiting for ladies to fill them

I am fresh out of horses though, please provide your own transportation

I used to think that more ladies didn't post because they are well aware that lots of guys here don't like women with opinions that differ from theirs. Nothing gets ya crossed off those precious 'lists' faster than forming an opinion. But I am seeing a lot more 'bitchy' posts so maybe they aren't worried about that anymore. Who knows! But to answer the question, yeah they should be allowed to post here like everyone else. If all the threads were cookie-cutter it would be hella boring around here. Originally Posted by Dannie

That about covers it for me. Coed, by definition is, well, coed. I guess the rub comes when someone forgets the part about posting a "strong" opinion might (will?) open the floor to different opinions. If you've got 'em, want to put 'em out there, then be ready and able to defend 'em. And, if some wish to start a thread which has as a primary objective to start some "excitement," it's just being a troll - maybe a clever one, but a troll nonetheless. Passive aggression is such a weak schtick.

There are plenty of ways to pose a question or give an opinion, but "don't confuse me with the facts - my mind's made up and you have to think like me" probably isn't the way to go for either men or women.

I'll take plus size please exxxtra pink...thanks


I kinda stops posting threads for the reason you just mention. Some men think they are threads. Some are stuck in the old days where women are seen not heard. When infact they should want to know if the provider can carry a simple conversation and give a good bj........Just saying

Then some ladies post drama threads, Where the men lump ALL providers in a drama box.

I have several suits of pink armor just waiting for ladies to fill them

I am fresh out of horses though, please provide your own transportation

I used to think that more ladies didn't post because they are well aware that lots of guys here don't like women with opinions that differ from theirs. Nothing gets ya crossed off those precious 'lists' faster than forming an opinion. But I am seeing a lot more 'bitchy' posts so maybe they aren't worried about that anymore. Who knows! But to answer the question, yeah they should be allowed to post here like everyone else. If all the threads were cookie-cutter it would be hella boring around here. Originally Posted by Dannie

To aid in this, I offer myself up to be ridden. Originally Posted by CenterLock

Sorry

Playing catch up here.

I really like the fact that the men here appreciate the providers threads. That means alot. The gents find out if the ladies is smart, crazy, or just wacky. And the ladies get to know the gents personality. I think this helps when making decision making with both ladies and gents.

Monkmonk: I would really like to names those names. But they have a slew of WK's behind them,, and Dannie hasn't sent me my Armour yet. Seriously if I name them, there would be drama and I don't need that at the moment...

Lisa, of course us ladies should post in coed....we are the biggest part of this board.....with out us here it would just be a bunch of bored ole men with nothing to gossip about... (I'm really just kidding guys)

and without us men you ladies would be broke.

Well Bob, with out us who would s_ck or f_ck your dick?

OMG Bob, see what you made me say....lol

and without us men you ladies would be broke. Originally Posted by bigbobftworth

It's cyclical alright. You pay them and they buy your pizza hence funding your hobby budget.

Don't complain if the pepperoni costs more, it is just Bob funding his sex budget.

That is so true Boltfan....
Bob, it sounds like I need to take you to Brio's for a drink.....And soon......

The gents find out if the ladies is smart, crazy, or just wacky. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

It can also give us other insight.

Sometimes you can tell if her "man" is the one posting her ads. Rarely do you see the ones with management on here conversing in Co-ed threads and if so, the writing styles are many times very different and in some of those cases, one side or the other has lost some IQ points....

Posting while drunk is another error that both guys and girls have been guilty of from time to time....

I especially enjoy the drunken (or uneducated) rants that go on forever without even the hint of punctuation, paragraph breaks, or God forbid, spell check.

Rarely see those rants from clients who have enjoyed enough success enough in life to be able to pay for that young hottie to get naked with him.