What our pictures look like and what men expect

Even outside the hobby, I am always amazed at how different women can look from one day to the next, or one event to the next. . Originally Posted by Skipp

Or, even from one shot to the next in a photo shoot.

I've experienced this more than once.

I guess I run with the looks aren't the most important thing crowd. Change your hair, fine, grow a bush fine, lose a leg? well okay we'll figure that out as well, but stop kissing and we'll have a problem.

I guess I run with the looks aren't the most important thing crowd. Change your hair, fine, grow a bush fine, lose a leg? well okay we'll figure that out as well, but stop kissing and we'll have a problem. Originally Posted by hobbyhard

I like the way you think.

some guy that did not look at all the pic's in her showcase
then said it not her. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Know this is a weird question and not the right place to ask but does anyone know how to do showcase. I asked and looked and no luck

Know this is a weird question and not the right place to ask but does anyone know how to do showcase. I asked and looked and no luck Originally Posted by princess rue

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1002407

Might help, I'm new and found the post, not sure its what you seek.

As long as there are people, there will be many different responses. Some people are very nice and reasonable, while others are not. Or there could be various factors in play, such as someone having a bad day, etc.

Not making excuses for these things... just saying it happens and you cannot control or predict it. Agree you were very clear in your materials but some how that did not get through in this case.

And when comes to personal things, one's reactions are personal too..... Not that this makes is any more pleasant when it happens, but it helps to remind ourselves.

Honestly ... if your look changes THAT much ... I would post one picture in your profile that shows your current look and say so, then keep it up to date. I think honesty in this business is far better than deceit (fake orgasms excluded - however if you are any good at fake orgasms - we should never know if they are real or fake anyway). So, if you are worried about the 20 pounds you gained since the "professional" photo's were taken ... DON'T ... either cowgirl up and hit the gym and lose the weight or post the picture and get calls from the guys who don't care about the 20lbs.

And before the idiots chime in about too busy or too hard to do everyday or every other day or once a week ... the picture doesn't even have to be a lingerie photo (you already have 200 of those) we would be happy if you just posted the sitting in your car selfie that you post everyday to one of your 100+ friends on facebook, twitter, snapchat, etc.

IMHO - this should be part of every providers profile and then no one would ever ask ... is that really you ... can you send me a "current" picture ... do you still look like your pictures etc. Bottom-line: if you deal with those questions realize it is because "there is a problem out there with misrepresentation" and I would say if you are resistant to trying to "fix it" then you are probably for whatever reason you have misrepresenting yourself on purpose - and that my friend is an issue for you and your therapist not for me!