There's no reason why any guy would read this thread and decide not to see her. She gave no personal information on the guy in question. She simply gave a lightly detailed version of her side and asked for provider opinions.
If I was a guy reading this and had wanted to see her beforehand, I'd still want to see her.
Originally Posted by MsElena
We agree that her version is light on the details. She only answered 1 of the 4 key questions I asked early on. When an accuser avoids certain relevant details, it raises suspicion.
Without the relevant details of (at least) her side of the story, the reality of the situation could be anything.
One thing is clear: If she wanted only provider opinions she would have posted in the powder room.
The appearance is that she posted here to try to coerce him to do more. The implied threat is that she'll post his handle here if he doesn't so that other ladies won't see him. Depending on exactly how things actually happened, that could be viewed as extortion.
Or it may be a perfectly reasonable response to the situation. We don't know.
Her avoidance of details is enough to cause someone to hesitate to see her until things are cleared up.