When you're just sooooo close...

Lol I like this thread angie goog topic. I am in this for me as well. I tell people all the time money is great. But if I'm going to have sex with someone I love hearing the moans but I need mine too. Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

You're one of the few girls here that I believe truly enjoys hobbying (without drama). Most ladies here are not like you, they don't show the true, genuine passion you do. If they did there'd be a lot less drama and much more fucking and money making going on.

Your thread gives an excellent definition of the problem here and all over the world. Many women expect men to read their minds, but no one can really do that. Originally Posted by DSK

Fify

I've definitely gotten a lot of good feedback from here.

And like I said, I knew it was going to come up that we are the ones being paid to perform an act for the client (or acts).

However, those of us that enjoy our jobs or sex in general, do like it when we get to get ours as well.

Being good at reading body signals and listening to the changes in her voice shouldn't be too hard.

When she goes from some moaning to oh shit, to holy fuck and has her legs wrapped around your face....you're doing it right. No need to ask if you got her off.

And yes, with some of us it does take more than a few licks on the clit...if you are so kind to spend some time down south.

If you are going to fuck us, well - I'm not going to give up what gets me off. I'll let you guys "read my body language" and listen to the words and sounds coming out of my mouth to figure that out.

Again, I'm not trying to get guys to pay me to get me off. I can get myself off if I needed it that bad. Seriously. But if you do want to get a provider off, pay attention to her is all I'm saying.

And in addition, I'll be a better communicator, but I'm not going to literally hold my client's hands during the process.

tntAngie - "However, those of us that enjoy our jobs or sex in general, do like it when we get to get ours as well."
not much different from a person who enjoys what they do and is damn good at it. i enjoyed my job for 16 yrs - got to meet all kinds of folks, help them define what they needed their computer systems to do, and did it w/ polish and a few laughs. they paid me. no need for me to sit there like a dead fish and just nod my head and go "yep, sure, can do" when i held meetings w/ them. got lots of kudos from many clients.

providers provide. no reason they shouldnt enjoy what they do.


tntAngie - "And in addition, I'll be a better communicator, but I'm not going to literally hold my client's hands during the process."
oh, cos you'll be holding something warmer, harder, and longer ?? :^)

seriously, communication is key, even if it's somewhat non-verbal.

have a deliteful week folks!!!

I must say , I never stop until the lady is fully satisfied!

I must say , I never stop until the lady is fully satisfied! Originally Posted by CPLOVER

Unless she tells you... Times up, time to go!

I've definitely gotten a lot of good feedback from here.

And like I said, I knew it was going to come up that we are the ones being paid to perform an act for the client (or acts).

However, those of us that enjoy our jobs or sex in general, do like it when we get to get ours as well.

Being good at reading body signals and listening to the changes in her voice shouldn't be too hard.

When she goes from some moaning to oh shit, to holy fuck and has her legs wrapped around your face....you're doing it right. No need to ask if you got her off.

And yes, with some of us it does take more than a few licks on the clit...if you are so kind to spend some time down south.

If you are going to fuck us, well - I'm not going to give up what gets me off. I'll let you guys "read my body language" and listen to the words and sounds coming out of my mouth to figure that out.

Again, I'm not trying to get guys to pay me to get me off. I can get myself off if I needed it that bad. Seriously. But if you do want to get a provider off, pay attention to her is all I'm saying.

And in addition, I'll be a better communicator, but I'm not going to literally hold my client's hands during the process. Originally Posted by tntangie

Again so lmao!!! I think this is hilarious you said you have a boyfriend who you train to get you off, well if that's true then it's his job to do that. Your client is most likely showing up and paying you to get him off and if he happen to get you off in the process then good.

To ask him to listen and pay more attention when you are close so that you can get off as well is funny to me. It's like me going to go pay to have a pedicure done and before the lady get finish she ask me if I can do her feet too lmao kmsl!!!! What really no mam.

This may be some guys agenda when going to see a provider but certainly not mine she get off cool if she don't she have a boyfriend for that or her favorite guy she likes that do care about doing that. I wouldn't worry about rather if he do or not all women know who to call if they want to get off so hit him up so you can let one go lol then everybody is happy

This is a business so you have to operate like such when work is over clock out and then go do you for the rest of the evening

To ask him to listen and pay more attention when you are close so that you can get off as well is funny to me. It's like me going to go pay to have a pedicure done and before the lady get finish she ask me if I can do her feet too lmao kmsl!!!! What really no mam.

This is a business so you have to operate like such when work is over clock out and then go do you for the rest of the evening Originally Posted by suiram77

You can see it your way, that's fine too. I have client's that simply come to see me for themselves. I don't have a problem with that either.

But as pmdelights said, it's nice when you have a provider who enjoys their job.

You can see it your way, that's fine too. I have client's that simply come to see me for themselves. I don't have a problem with that either.

But as pmdelights said, it's nice when you have a provider who enjoys their job. Originally Posted by tntangie

Cool!! Whatever floats your boat Love but a provider enjoying what she do and wanting her clients to get her off is two different things. I just think something
Like that should be your mans job to please you my job is to be respectful and pay your donation for your TIME!!!!

Im sorry I just see all this as business and a lil fun for me but do you
I said my 3 cents so enjoy all the guys who comes to get you off duces.

Well, I saw this thread and figured I needed to stop in and apologize profusely

Also Ang, I know this may come as a shocker but some ladies fake it, GASPS!!!!! Therefore, a lot of us guys can't determine who's really into it and who's putting on a show (hence the "I" in IOP). Some ladies are really good at it too. This is why some of us don't really pick up on the signals because it has been distorted due to the nature of the hobby. I think that's why it's even more important for providers to be verbal during the session if they really want to get off.

Well, I saw this thread and figured I needed to stop in and apologize profusely Originally Posted by Bob Soldios

No you don't.

And yes, when it comes down to it, this is a business. Our goal is to get the client off.
And also, I have had a couple of proposals that I'm not sure exactly what they meant, but as a business, I still have to work and pay the rent and bills and tuition.


So, this may be something funny to see if you can get me off, but it still is a business to me.

Also Ang, I know this may come as a shocker but some ladies fake it, GASPS!!!!! Therefore, a lot of us guys can't determine who's really into it and who's putting on a show (hence the "I" in IOP). Some ladies are really good at it too. This is why some of us don't really pick up on the signals because it has been distorted due to the nature of the hobby. I think that's why it's even more important for providers to be verbal during the session if they really want to get off. Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

Preach DK!!! And for me I am always ymmv when it comes to daty
so that's not always going to happen in my case I'm very selective
When it comes to that so again all business.

No you don't.

And yes, when it comes down to it, this is a business. Our goal is to get the client off.
And also, I have had a couple of proposals that I'm not sure exactly what they meant, but as a business, I still have to work and pay the rent and bills and tuition.


So, this may be something funny to see if you can get me off, but it still is a business to me. Originally Posted by tntangie

Well it first has to be my goal before I even attempt to try to get you off
and in most cases it's not my goal. I am not even thinking that way when I
show up at a providers incall especially if she is new.

I do feel what you are saying Ang and what you are saying holds weight and I'm sure
It's ladies do want to get off too, I'm just only saying I'm not the guy to look to do that
because I'm at an appointment for me for the most part. Unless i have seen you plenty of times and we have that kind of connection I can assure you that im not thinking about if you get off or not if you do great if not then ok here is $300 thanks and I am on my way.

Some threads get too long to read. All i gotta say is I love making a woman happy sexually especially DATY. I could Daty all day with the right woman. I enjoy daty more than BBBJ. If i end a session knowing that the woman i'm with is completely happy that i feel like a king and am happy.