Quick Question.....How Often......

Then maybe they should redistribute their hobby time into working out and/or being a good person. Hot wife isn't giving it up because either A) husband let himself go and is unappealing, B) husband's personality is shit, thus making him unappealing, C) All of the above. . Originally Posted by GSW

Some women just don't like to have sex regardless.. their tired, distracted, not in the mood, low sex drive.. a lot of times that happens after having kids or being in the relationship a long time.. or maybe even if she is having sex with him she may be vanilla and not suck dick and/or be a dead fuck who just lays there..
I wouldn't put the blame on the guy without knowing the full situation.. Sex and love are 2 totally different things and a lot of people don't understand that.. Imo people weren't made to be monogamous and to spend their whole lives having sex with just one person.

Then maybe they should redistribute their hobby time into working out and/or being a good person. Hot wife isn't giving it up because either A) husband let himself go and is unappealing, B) husband's personality is shit, thus making him unappealing, C) All of the above.

I hobby because I'm lazy and find it quicker and easier than changing diet and exercise routine to shed the 25-30lbs that would make attracting quality singles a regular occurrence. But if I had a hot woman (that I could publicly advertise and make known I was with), I'm damn sure gunna be doing my part to keep her satisfied and happy. Originally Posted by GSW

The situation wasn't about the wife's happiness. She's very happy and they have sex frequently. Everyone doesn't hobby for the same reason, ie lack of sex at home or being single and hobbying is the quick and easy way to get laid no questions asked.

Some hobby for the variety as is the case with myself. Some are bored banging the same person they have been for 10,15, 20 years.

First and last post of this nature, I'll stick to the occasional review or comment. I thought this was an information sharing board not a place to attack people when you don't know entire scenarios and have all information.

Based on the responses I've seen on this post and many others, it's no wonder why some of you are single and have been the majority of your lives.

I agree with most of what Kayla said above. There are many reasons to hobby and many reasons why a wife will or will not put out.

My menu is quite vast plus I'm a dirty slut with a cum fetish so a lot of my clients see me because I'll beg them to do the nasty things their wife won't even speak of.

I'm lazy

Maybe the guy with the hot wife isn't putting out. This is the reason why I am in this hobby. Originally Posted by lokera14

Then maybe they should redistribute their hobby time into working out and/or being a good person. Hot wife isn't giving it up because either A) husband let himself go and is unappealing, B) husband's personality is shit, thus making him unappealing, C) All of the above.

I hobby because I'm lazy and find it quicker and easier than changing diet and exercise routine to shed the 25-30lbs that would make attracting quality singles a regular occurrence. But if I had a hot woman (that I could publicly advertise and make known I was with), I'm damn sure gunna be doing my part to keep her satisfied and happy. Originally Posted by GSW

The situation wasn't about the wife's happiness. She's very happy and they have sex frequently. Everyone doesn't hobby for the same reason, ie lack of sex at home or being single and hobbying is the quick and easy way to get laid no questions asked.

Some hobby for the variety as is the case with myself. Some are bored banging the same person they have been for 10,15, 20 years.

First and last post of this nature, I'll stick to the occasional review or comment. I thought this was an information sharing board not a place to attack people when you don't know entire scenarios and have all information.
Originally Posted by blackops2424

I'm lazy Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I hobby because I have a Hobby Mansion....

I thought this was an information sharing board not a place to attack people when you don't know entire scenarios and have all information. Originally Posted by blackops2424

I thinck you confused this place with a different place....

I literally almost spit my drink out laughing so hard at offshore drilling! All these elaborate explanations and theories as to why men hobby and he comes out with "im lazy". No excuses, no BS. Blunt answer... Im lazy!


All joking aside, I know many guys wanna act out fantasys and try new things but majority really just wanna get off, guaranteed, with minimal effort (they don't have to convince us to do it, not saying they don't put any effort in while in bed). Im not the typical escort bc im not around a whole lot but I figure I'd be having sex anyways, I'm sexually open minded, why not make money doing it. I like ppl. Any girl that's around a long time or keeps coming back (and doesn't play on the track team) obv enjoys this line of work or we wouldn't still be here. We all have our reasons for being here...I just like offshores the most ������

There are many reasons why a girl would choose to whore and I don't believe that every girl who isn't on the track team does this because she likes it. Yes, lots of us do enjoy the work, but many just like the good money.

GSW has a thing or two to learn about why some hobby.... you only know why You do it GSW and have not walked in another's shoes... You are making assumptions.

The assumptions made in the hobby are so out of whack at times... LOL. Seems some base what happens from their own life or whats posted here. Whats posted here or what you may experience is not representative of what really happens with most. (not to say there is not any truth to what is said/happens at times)

GSW has a thing or two to learn about why some hobby.... you only know why You do it GSW and have not walked in another's shoes... You are making assumptions.

The assumptions made in the hobby are so out of whack at times... LOL. Seems some base what happens from their own life or whats posted here. Whats posted here or what you may experience is not representative of what really happens with most. (not to say there is not any truth to what is said/happens at times) Originally Posted by ElleW

With anything in life, we never can fully know or understand anyone else's thoughts or reasons. Hell, there are countless people who don't understand their own damn selves or can't control their thoughts/actions, and as a result they rely on therapists, medications, etc. to provide them assistance or guidance.

But, with the whole "2 sides to every story" or the "your side, their side, and the truth", anything we see/read on here that people list as reasons is almost never going to be 100% factual. Hell, most people deal with some version of pride, embarrassment, denial, insecurity, etc that they aren't going to give anyone in the world the honest truth about themselves or their reasons.

People here are quick to be like "oh, this guys wife doesn't fuck him" or "she's a dead fish" or some other supporting things, because that's what the hobbyist has claimed. Who's to say if any (or all) of us hobbyists are talking completely out of their asses. Looking at it like the hobbyist is a victim because his wife/gf doesn't do XYZ at all/anymore/etc.

Maybe the hobbyist is verbally or physically abusive? Maybe he's an alcoholic? Maybe his just a sarcastic asshole that's always condensing to others, his wife included. It's just as likely, if not more likely, that most of us hobbyists aren't getting the action we want because of our own choices/behaviors/actions.

Hell, how many of you providers would NEVER EVER, EVER sleep with most/all of the guys you see if money wasn't involved? Every woman here has probably thought to themselves hundreds of times "yeah I can see why he's single, why his wife/gf won't put out, etc"

I'm not blaming hobbyists or defending their women. Just saying that everyone here seems readily willing to point the blame or reasoning on others than on themselves. I just try to approach things with a greater level of realism and self-awareness.

I prefer the CBJ. I have been in the hobby for about 10 years off and on. Every time I got a BBBJ it ran through my mind that I may have caught something and was getting tested every 1-2 months. I do have a girl and she is very hot and loves to fuck but for me I like to have variety and this is much better than picking up some girl at a bar or work. Then having that person stalk you or threaten to tell your significant other.

I prefer the CBJ. I have been in the hobby for about 10 years off and on. Every time I got a BBBJ it ran through my mind that I may have caught something and was getting tested every 1-2 months. I do have a girl and she is very hot and loves to fuck but for me I like to have variety and this is much better than picking up some girl at a bar or work. Then having that person stalk you or threaten to tell your significant other. Originally Posted by makethe33

Hey 33,


I agree 100%

I prefer the CBJ. I have been in the hobby for about 10 years off and on. Every time I got a BBBJ it ran through my mind that I may have caught something and was getting tested every 1-2 months. I do have a girl and she is very hot and loves to fuck but for me I like to have variety and this is much better than picking up some girl at a bar or work. Then having that person stalk you or threaten to tell your significant other. Originally Posted by makethe33

I prefer CBJ for the reason you listed and because when its time to finish BBBJ providers always stop too soon. That doesn't happen with CBJ. With CBJ I don't have to worry.


All I get from your post is not cheating is not an option for you. I have never understood why people who need to cheat are in relationships to begin with. You obviously don't care about your relationship much if you are putting it in danger all the time, but at the same time claim to be worry that some girl might threaten to tell your significant other. Which is it?

Some women just don't like to have sex regardless.. their tired, distracted, not in the mood, low sex drive.. a lot of times that happens after having kids or being in the relationship a long time.. or maybe even if she is having sex with him she may be vanilla and not suck dick and/or be a dead fuck who just lays there..
I wouldn't put the blame on the guy without knowing the full situation.. Sex and love are 2 totally different things and a lot of people don't understand that.. Imo people weren't made to be monogamous and to spend their whole lives having sex with just one person. Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

Nothing you said excuses a spouse for cheating if the spouse doesn't know.. Before I would force my spouse to live a lie and put her in danger I would tell the truth.

I literally almost spit my drink out laughing so hard at offshore drilling! All these elaborate explanations and theories as to why men hobby and he comes out with "im lazy". No excuses, no BS. Blunt answer... Im lazy!


All joking aside, I know many guys wanna act out fantasys and try new things but majority really just wanna get off, guaranteed, with minimal effort (they don't have to convince us to do it, not saying they don't put any effort in while in bed). Im not the typical escort bc im not around a whole lot but I figure I'd be having sex anyways, I'm sexually open minded, why not make money doing it. I like ppl. Any girl that's around a long time or keeps coming back (and doesn't play on the track team) obv enjoys this line of work or we wouldn't still be here. We all have our reasons for being here...I just like offshores the most ������ Originally Posted by bella0203

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