To me, a "come do me" text or phone call is in a completely different league than what I was referring to in my original post. (As long as the girl has been told by the client it is okay to do so. That is a good way to get in deep shit at home for us married guys.) I don't mind those nearly as much but would prefer it to be a rare occasion.I'm guilty of telling a gent .... come do me. I do reserve that tho for REALLY hard times (hehehe ok so I want you to be hard and thinking of me).
What I'm sick of is the blatant begging for sessions or asking for money via PMs on this web site from those who have not spent a single second with me in the sack. It might be different if I had some history with a girl and she asks when down on her luck, but this is not the case. It's rude, gets really old and I can assure you there is no quicker way to be scratched from my list permanently.
I'm glad to see I'm not the only one tired of this. It's also great to hear some of the fine ladies chime in on this subject. Makes me want to snuggle up next to them and thank them properly for being so classy. Originally Posted by TexAss
It takes A LOT of down on my luck to text anyone asking for help, those who know me know that. I do not expect a gentle to just hand over $$ I personally will apply that help to any future session we may have. I am good at remembering most details for a very long time. I remember most who helped me when in dire need when my son passed away.
Right before I was planning a trip north, a gentleman pre-paid on a special deal I offered. I was unable to pay him back or meet up .... but I have NOT forgotten and will pay up with extra time as well.
My rep is much more important than begging and pleading with a guy that I have even seen before... maybe to much pride? I figure a gentleman will contact and see me when he's ready! I'm open for contact at any time when I've screened.... I enjoy phone conversations deeping a connection. Allowing gentlemen to know the more "real me".
Most of the time I am more guilty of speaking my mind than not .... lol