While I understand I dissagree. I think the first session should be the one that the provider really impresses the client. I only repeat with a provider after being impressed with the first session. Things like upsell or extreme tardiness along with uninspired performance put them in one time only category. I just don't agree with the lets get to know each other first philosophy . It's like the good things go to people who wait. If there ever was a string along line thats it. If I show up I will show up clean and respect the wishes completely of the provider but if I'm not impressed I won't show up again.
Originally Posted by burkalini
I agree that in the first session, the client needs to be really impressed almost like a "WOWW" experience but that can be done with limited activities or full GFE or even with just simple foreplay at a meet and greet party. The provider needs to always try to "WOWW" the client. That is what makes for good long term regulars.
As far as activities, providers should only do what they really enjoy doing because, in the long run, they will end up with a bad attitude if forced to just "act" like they like it. That wont work. If a provider loves greek, she should offer it without an upcharge or not offer it in my opinion. Kissing and all types of foreplay should be part of full GFE.
Originally Posted by whitechocolate
It's just a difference in styles, gentlemen.
Different strokes for different folks. You're both very right.
If I had my way, all my first dates would be 2 hours, so I can 'hit him with my best shot' since it's more indicative of future encounters with me than even my one hour appointments. I think that we can cover a LOT of ground in one, but in two, you'll be blown away. In that same respect, an BnG is awesome with me.
Of course I like doing things a certain way, but for argument's sake, is there any combination of the two styles where a lady could appeal to both type of men? I think differences like this create a bit of hobby snobbery and I'm not with that.
