What constitutes a good BJ?

Twisting while going up and down is really nice.

But as it has been said, CIM is the most important thing.

Or blowing bubbles with it? Which film was that?

Or blowing bubbles with it? Which film was that? Originally Posted by MissMollyMcGrath

woohoo! u sound like my kinda woman

Licking the boys is great, but I actually love for my partner to bite my sack. Just sharp, quick little chomps all over while she strokes me. Scratching or pinching with the fingernails does the trick too...

Mixing it up keeps it fresh & the fellas on edge. Although I come from the school of thought that "using hands is cheating" I've been encouraged otherwise in my hobby years. If hand-stroking is what you like, you usually have to tell me. My hands come into play when holding the base of the cock like a cock ring & cupping the ball sack while pulling it down to increase the pressure build. My preference is CIM DEEP down my throat. No mess & all that lovely protein for my muscles & hair. *ahhhhhh*

Nice poll in tribute to the staple product of the community! Bravo Jasmine!

XOXOXO
Kat

First time Genesis Nicole teabagged me my head slammed into the wall; WOW.

Mixing up 1 2 and 3 work for me; and eye contact takes me to the edge. I have met very few women than can make me pop with a bj .Kat knows exactly how it's done.

... Cat got my tongue, sorry.

I love bj's too much to sum it up nicely in just one post. It seems like there must bee a hundred ways to please a cock with my mouth and hands.

Crystal; I forgot about you.. You are exceptional too!!

Decades ago, "Playboy" magazine did a study. They asked men and women two questions: For you, what constitutes good oral sex? For the opposite sex, what constitutes good oral sex?

Interestingly enough, both sides of the aisle agreed, STRONGLY, on both questions. Men and women agreed that good oral sex for men was letting him come in her mouth. Women and men agreed that good oral sex for women was not stopping when she comes.

So, for THIS question, the right answer is, in ASPD terminology, BBBJTCIMNQxS. (NQNS vs. NQBS was not part of the study in question.)

CIM DEEP down my throat

Kat you ever had it so deep you didn't even taste cum cause it was that far in? hehe. For some reason I've had that happen more than a few times, bet same for you too.

BJ's just don't do it for me... At least they haven't in the past. And... not singularly. But as apart of foreplay, of course.

I am all about combo's myself!

I agree with much of what's been said in this thread. My particular preferences are:

1) No hands. If I wanted hands, I could do that myself.
2) Slow and sensual is the way to go. With fast and furious, the movement is just too fast to truly enjoy the sensations, and feels too much like power fucking. Not that there's anything wrong with power fucking, but getting head should be a sensually distinctive experience.
3) Avoid contact with teeth.
4) Don't be afraid to lick up and down the shaft, around the base, the boys, etc.
5) Go as deep as possible. Sometimes a quarter inch deeper can make a huge difference in the pleasure factor.
6) As someone pointed out, the period of time right before, during, and right after the orgasm is the most important part. CIM is essential, but it has to be more than just stop and catch. Keep sucking during and after the O. Anything less is like taking a trip across town, only to have the driver kick you out a mile short and say "walk the rest of the way." That's supremely unsatisfying.

It always flabbergasts me in "best bj" threads (I think there's one current now) when someone answers "the last one." Why are we even discussing what makes one BJ better than another if the best one is the last one? Obviously, I disagree with that sentiment.

Kat you ever had it so deep you didn't even taste cum cause it was that far in? hehe. For some reason I've had that happen more than a few times, bet same for you too. Originally Posted by MissMollyMcGrath

How did you know? Of course, not everyone is going to qualify for that opportunity due to girth or lesser length and is dependent upon the jaw size & depth of the girl, too. The proper trajectory is another necessary element as some cocks curve up, some tilt down, and then there's the sidewinders.

It's a true case of DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS!

*Is that Kermit the Frog? We need a Miss Piggy emoticon for him to be drooling over if it is. *

Craven... *you sexy mf'er*

Not every fella is as "blessed" as you but you know it's hard for a gal to keep her jaws extended any length of time to avoid contact w/ teeth. Scraping is definitely not something a gal wants to do to a guy *in most cases mwahahaha* but it happens, unfortunately.

And for you guys who like attention paide to your balls... My clients have heard me say "I like to start w/ the boys because they're so often neglected." If you like 'em licked & sucked, it's always more likely to happen if you take some time to trim or shave before meeting someone. I tolerate unshaven fellas if there's not really thick pubes, but I floss my teeth daily. No need to help me out w/ that. LOL

It's about that time...

How did you know? Of course, not everyone is going to qualify for that opportunity due to girth or lesser length and is dependent upon the jaw size & depth of the girl, too. The proper trajectory is another necessary element as some cocks curve up, some tilt down, and then there's the sidewinders.

It's a true case of DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS!

*Is that Kermit the Frog? We need a Miss Piggy emoticon for him to be drooling over if it is. *

Craven... *you sexy mf'er*

Not every fella is as "blessed" as you but you know it's hard for a gal to keep her jaws extended any length of time to avoid contact w/ teeth. Scraping is definitely not something a gal wants to do to a guy *in most cases mwahahaha* but it happens, unfortunately.

And for you guys who like attention paide to your balls... My clients have heard me say "I like to start w/ the boys because they're so often neglected." If you like 'em licked & sucked, it's always more likely to happen if you take some time to trim or shave before meeting someone. I tolerate unshaven fellas if there's not really thick pubes, but I floss my teeth daily. No need to help me out w/ that. LOL

It's about that time... Originally Posted by Kit-4-Kat

I can attest to Kat's skills. Some of the best Cocksucking I've ever experienced. As she has noted here....