References

When Independents have an agency do their screening it rises a (who is this asking for a reference) question...

Lots of good advice in this thread.

I just wanted to add that you might fail a lady's screening (or not get your emails/PMs/texts returned for a repeat visit) if you set off the lady's "spidey sense" for some reason. As frustrating as that might be, just move on (you don't want to be *that* guy!)

ztonk
AustnModStaff Originally Posted by ztonk

+1 Always. Spidey Sense is usually never wrong

When Independents have an agency do their screening it rises a (who is this asking for a reference) question... Originally Posted by dog soldier 4

OK......JUST FYI......THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE

BETWEEN USING A SCREENER/BOOKER/COOP, AND

WORKING FOR AN AGENCY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND IT

SHOULDN'T MATTER WHO IS ASKING FOR THE

REFERENCE!!!!!! A Lady Should Give It Just ASAP!!!!!


AND WHEN THEY SAY I AM NOT SURE WHO THAT WAS,

SO I DELETED IT.....BULLSHIT!!!!!!!! The Subject Line

ALWAYS SAYS - REFERENCE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!



HELL 95% Of My Inquiries For A Reference Check Come

From Someone I DON'T KNOW....SO THAT EXCUSE IS LAME!!!!!!!!

AREN'T WE ALL ON THE SAME TEAM HERE TRYING

TO KEEP EACH OTHER SAFE?!?!?!? Keeping The

Hobby Circle SAFE?!?!?!? Those Ladies That REFUSE

To Give References, OR STALL, Are Not Playing The

Hobby SAFE!!!!!!!!



A Screener/Booker/Coop Is JUST Like Us

INDEPENDENT LADIES!!!!!!!

INDEPENDENT!!!!!!!!

USUALLY ONE OF US!!!!!!!! And An Agency Is A

WHOLE DIFFERENT ANIMAL!!!!!!!!



SO PLEASE DON'T Look At A Screener/Booker/Coop

As A Bad Thing!!!!!!!


NOBODY Looks Down Their Nose's For A CEO Having

A Personal Assistant.......SAME DIF!!!!!!!



HELL I GET COCKBLOCKED MORE OFTEN THAN NOT!!!!!!

AND AGAIN, THIS IS TRULY WHY YOU FELLAS NEVER

HEAR BACK FROM US, BECAUSE I AM NOT CHASING/BEGGING

ANYONE FOR A REFERENCE!!!!!!!!



If You Are Going To Use Someone For A Reference, PLEAE

Ask Them If It Is OK, AND IF YOU LADYS AGREE

THEN GIVE THE F*#!*?% REFERENCE!!!!!!!!!



I KNOW THAT YOU WANT THE SAME RESPECT

IN RETURN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


JUST SAYIN'