Showing the face, does it matter?

lilsmurf's Avatar
It does'nt matter to me if no face picture is shown. Sexy pictures are an important determining factor in who I decide to see, But, are really just part of the equation. I like a little left to the imagination, shit, she has'nt seen me.
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
The anticipation of an encounter is half, sometimes more, of the fun. If I can see a face before making an appointment, I really enjoy being able to imagine her looking up at me from waist level, or me gazing down upon her from missionary position. So, yeah, I'm more likely to pick the lady whose face I've seen and appeals to me.

One thing that hasn't been mentioned is that, in this digital age, once your picture is published on a website (or even sent out via e-mail), you've lost control over it. There's a site that archives web pages, and I have no doubt that there are some people who maintain digital scrapbooks of their encounters and the ladies they have been with. Deniability is a lot easier when it's just a written review of someone calling herself Meg than when there's a web page with a photo and a banner that says, "For a good time, call Meg!"

Just my 1/50th of $1.
muffdivinman57's Avatar
I like to see the face, I think it ties the whole package together, however I would prefer to see the kitty & the full body as opposed to just face shots. How you treat/take care of people will get you many returns
75% of the Lady's i spend time don't show
Im cool with that
If you showed your face it would no doubt effect your business. I totally understand trying to be somewhat anonymous but most guys are visual and it does determine, in a lot of cases whether or not I decide to see someone. If Nina Moretti showed her face she would not be able to keep up with the requests for her time!
Fort Worth Punk's Avatar
To be blunt, this is a buyers' market and in this environment, yeah, it matters. And this is nothing directed at ANYONE in this thread, but one reason it does matter is because so many of us have had some very disappointing moments when the door opened.
pyramider's Avatar
In light of recent LE activities I think its wise for the ladies to either cover their faces in photos or only post photos where their faces are obscured.
Well,

Meg, I saw you without a view of your face, and I was not disappointed. (And I showed up a little early, you had actually just woke up and had to fix your hair while I waited and watched)

When I look back at the ladies I have seen as a "professional hobbyist" over the last few years, I'd say more did not have face pics than did, and many dropped the face pics after they had a few reviews. Don't want to mention names, because many are either UTR now or retired, but I would say once a lady gets a couple of good reviews from respected hobbyist, not an issue.

Sure, I enjoy looking at a cute face, I think Tara Evans is a doll. Same for Reese Foster. (to drop a couple of names of ladies who show their face.) However, I have had lunch in public with at least 2-3 ladies, and with something as simple as meeting at a hotel or incall, I much prefer that no one can recognize I am meeting a known provider. So, I guess I lean more toward no face pics. Even makes me a little nervous for someone to be "out there" a bit too much.

TC

PS: I do like the pics where a lady uses her hair to cover her face, but still give a glimpse of what she looks like. Let's me know that I am not meeting a troll or ogre, but doesn't blow her identity. Granted, her friends and family will probably recognize her, and maybe her college profs.
Lana Warren's Avatar
It probably does effect a lady's business if she doesn't show her face, but if she is well known on the board, the gentlemen here usually give an indication of what the lady looks like!

For me, I don't show a face pic until after screening! And to my knowledge, no one has ever been disappointed!
lionheart11's Avatar
I don't know your goals or aspirations but if it doesn't matter who knows past, present, or future then whatever you are comfortable with.
When a provider won't show their face, that is pretty much a DEAL BREAKER for me. The facial features are very important. About the only exception is if I have seen a review or have a direct referral.

DOG
I have to admit, the face is extremely important to me. My time is precious and I want to spend it with someone I find attractive and someone whom I can have a good conversation with. Both are critical. I don't get out much at all so when I do I really need to know. HOWEVER, that is what the socials and other events help with
Ladies - Show your face if you are beautiful and nothing to hide. Bees get attracted by beautiful flowers. Bees even hate to sit/land or be around near an ugly flower. I would not see a lady who would not show her face even slightly on any of her pictures. I have been ripped off by so many girls who used fake beautiful pictures. I have seen MILF ladies who have been posting the pictures when they were in twenties.
rakuguy's Avatar
mishk9, i understand you are new here. please do not bump threads that are over 30 days old. if you have something to add please start a new thread. thanks. closing this one now. -rak
rakuguy's Avatar
thread re-opened. I know it's hella old but I received a request to re-open it so pertinent new information could be added. staff would not re-open a review thread this old but discussion threads are another matter though a discussion thread this damn old falls into a gray area obviously. so with that said...let the discussion continue.