There is a distinct difference in approaching someone you know to be a provider (this guy knew Ze) and someone you only suspect to be a provider. I think approaching someone who you suspect in a decent respectful way is ok (just like a civie). I have made small chat with nice young ladies and gotten their number to discover they are providers after the fact. Some I suspected, some I did not. Some, I enlisted the services of, others I did not. I think the key is remaining a gentleman and using tact in any situation. So if one is a blithering idiot and doesn't have the capability to use tact, then I agree. Personally, I find it challenging and exhilirating to "play this game" especially when it pays off! So as long as it is done in this manner, I think it's fine. Any logical rebuttals?
Well, I guess the issue is the thought process. I agree no one should approach anyone with the thought "I bet she is a provider and I am going to go find out" but the basic human propensity is to strike up a convo with someone you may find attractive. I guess my point is, finding out that this person is also a provider would be a pleasant surprise and icing on the cake for me. Nevertheless, I digress.
I feel like an ass but I ran into an AMP girl once at Spa Castle and smiled. She smiled back. She was with a group of friends. I began to walk on over and I could see a look of fear forming. So I approached the group and said excuse me. All but her moved a tad. So I politely pointed at the water cooler she was blocking and winked/smiled and asked if I could get some water.