I can't imagine it NOT being hard. I'm sure the ladies see some great guys on their best behavior but also the absolute worst in guys as well. Plus the stress of having to be cautious almost 100% of the time in and out of the hobby. Potential legal issues, family issues, safety issues.....it boggles the mind. That doesn't even take into account the possible emotional toll based on being with someone how it affects their relationships and how they deal with perceptions of them based on society norms. I would think you have to be a very strong woman to do this for a long period of time!!
Geez.....that's a little depressing. Be sure and thank a provider!! Hopefully for each the pros outway the cons. Just in my short time here I've met some wonderful classy ladies in person and through reading posts encountered some quality individuals both male and female on this site.
I appreciate all they do provide and hope all of them reach all the goals, whether its financial, educational, whatever.......they've earned it!!
Just me $.02.....
Originally Posted by Logan135
Gee, do you think the Statue of Liberty is a high enough pedestal for the ladies?
I think a little perspective is in order. Everyone in any job is going to have stress issues, relationship issues, family issues and possible safety issues depending on the job. Granted, most don't have legal issues to contend with.
It all comes down to money though. Many have jobs they loathe and which are physically and emotionally draining. They sure aren't making hundreds of dollars an hour though. I'm sorry but I'm just not going to spend too much time worrying about ladies who make their living having sex and earning that much money. I felt sorry for my Granddad who worked as a coal miner to support his family. At the end of his day, he could barely walk and worked under the most godawful conditions. He ended up coughing out his lungs by the time he was 45.
I see ladies occasionally and certainly pay their fee. If I'm willing to pay it, they're entitled to it but I do tend to roll my eyes when I hear how "hard" the life is.